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hey lindz! i'm a 13 yr old girl. all these popular people at my school hate me. I was dating the most popular boy in our school last year, and when we broke up, they all decided that they hated me and they called me ugly and stuff behind my back. Once one boy literally walked up to me and pushed me! Now summer is ending and its 3 days b4 school starts, and i decided i wanna prove to them im not a loser! What do you think i can do?- anonymous (link)
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ok i think what you should do is just ignore the people that say things about you, and if they come up to you and make fun of you just say "whatever" and walk away, or just ignore it .. you should also try making new friends, and when you have a lot of friends and you act like a nice person, you wont seem lyk a "loser" good luck!
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hey lindsay.. i dont think i can trust two of my friends anymore. well me and my friend ashley bout this kid sean an abercombie shirt when they were goin out. but they broke up and they r mad at each other. and i gave the abercombie shirt to my friend bryan because sean wouldnt wear it and told him not to tell ashley. i found out he did and ashley is rele mad at me. and when im with ashley i would tell her some stuff and she wuld tell and i told her not to. so i cant trust either of them anymore. Ashley is still mad at me, and i am mad at bryan. wat should i do 2 set things right again??
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i think you should tell them how you feel .. you should tell "bryan" that when you told him not to tell you meant it, and tell "ashley" you didn`t think she would get upset and you`re sorry. maybe now you know that you shouldn`t tell them secrets, and they`re not trustworthy friends =\ good luck!
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well, theres this really fat, ugly bitch who think shes ALL THAT, but shes nothing to look at. She took my good friends boyfriend and i mean, hes an asshole, but like it's just the fact that she did it. Lemme tell ya, he ain't good looking neither. So i guess they are perfect together. but i dont know how to handle really gay,ugly,immature bitches,who have no idea she is about to get jumped and i need help trying to make them realize how dumb and idiotic they seem to other people. btw, her name starts with a weird letter. Elephant ?!
please help
-kimmmay (link)
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=) i think the best idea is for people to know what goes around, comes around .. you dont directly have to do something to her or him, but indirectly they will probably realize they are dumb and idiotic ! ;) .. maybe we should just accept the face that some people are very mean because they`re insecure! sad, but true!
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hey linz. alright, sooo heresss the problem, i have this friend who treats me like dirt. But i dont wana lose this friend because if i say " i dont wana be friends with you" it doesnt work that way. See, I will see this friend for the next 4 years and have to come acrosss this friend A LOT, cause we are involved in the same avtivities. But like, my friend is so mean, treats me like shyt, makes fun of me, bosses me around and ALWAYS starts fights with me. Like, i cant take it anymore. My friend think that they can take advantage of me! Hell no! I think my friend takes their anger out on me cause their jelous or get mad when i have something they dont. And, this person shouldnt act like that. And, im so frustrated b/c i can never get away! Sometimes, this person can be a lot of fun and be reely nice, but ughhhh helppp me linz!
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i think what you should do is tell this person how you feel .. losing a good friend is hard, and you dont want to do that! if you feel like she treats you like dirt, you should let her know, so that it doesnt happen anymore. and im sure she doesnt feel like she can take advantage of you, but maybe your too easygoing and let them step on you =\ .. maybe she is jealous of sumthin you have and they dont though, and thats common and may be a reason she treats you like "shit".. also, maybe you can try hanging with other people so you can make new/better friends ! good luck =)
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i am close with many people but this one friend of mine i am not liking as much as i used to i guess you would say and i just dont understand how to not be friends with her because its really hard and i just cant seem to find away to get rid of her .. please help !! (link)
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i think you should try making new/other friends and then maybe you can hang out with her less and less. you shouldn`t do anything to hurt her feelings, or make her feel like you don`t want to be friends though. good luck =]
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ok..well heres the problem.. if i tell myfriend thati think that her bf is getting in the way of our friendship she will get mad at me and she won't understand what im talking about cuz she doesn't think that she gives me an attitude and she doesn't hink tht she disrespects me.. what should i do?
NObody cares=( (link)
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i think you should let her know that you feel disrespected by her .. if she doesn`t seem to care and gives you an attitude you should try not hanging with her for a while, maybe not calling her as much or iming her etc.. she`ll probably notice that you feel hurt by her and she`ll want to be friends - then you can tell her WHY, and hopefully she`ll be more friendly and more considerate towards your feelings. good luck =]
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HELP! my friend is the meanest kid in the world, wut do i do? (link)
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i think you should tell your friend that you think he/she is starting to "hurt your feelings", and let them know some of the things they do that are "mean" .. if you don`t let them know they`re hurting your feelings, they`re gonna keep doing it! good luck ;]
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My best friend of 11 years likes they kid i used to.. seems simple but me and the kid were really close but then he kinda played me so we don't talk anymore.. but i know he still cares about me.. he's always asking my friends how i am.. if i still talk about him.. if i still like him.. which i don't.. the only time he's ever mentioned is when someone else brings him up... anyway.. i know for a fact the only reason he'd ever go out with her is to piss me off or make me jealous but i'm not like that.. i know he's gonna end up hurting my friend and i don't want that at all but i can't just go up to her and say "oh hey, he's just gonna play you to get to me" it doesn't exactly roll off the tounge.. any advice? (link)
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ok well i dont think that you should tell your friend that what he did to you, he might do to her - because she might think you`re jealous. i think you should let them go out and see what happens and if he hurts her, then just be there for her and be a good friend; if he tries to get back with you - don`t go back with him; people will notice hes a "player". good luck =]
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i have this best friend of all times that me and this other friend gave some fades:we told her that we didnt want anybody else to have them because me and my other friend worked really hard on the fades/quotes. but a few days ago, i found out that she gave them away to people.i am mad at her (( but not ALOT )). anyways, on the other hand: she also told one of my secrets that i didnt want her to tell. another thing that she did was: theres this really cute/funny/nice ( all that stuff ))boy that i liked. But i was stupidly gonna ask him out when all of a sudden i look at his profile and it said: girl: elizabeth ...... I WAS SO MAD because i knew that that was my best friend's other friend. (( i know, this is confusing - lol - )) anyways, i dont know what to do because i cant get rid of her because shes my BFF. What should i do? (link)
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i know how you feel, i think that what you should do is tell her how that made you feel.. she`s not just going to GUESS that what she did made you mad .. although she should know telling your secret was wrong and would hurt your feelings if you knew. also, maybe you should try getting away from her for a while, like hanging out with other people or taking up new hobbies/interests. it doesn`t mean you dont have to be friends with her anymore, just take a break to let her know the things she does anno you or make you upset. good luck!
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i feel like im losing one of my friends, i mean we used to be really close and ive known her for a really long time, but now i feel like i dont know her, but i still want to be friends with her. please give me some advice. thanks (link)
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next time you see her or speak to her maybe you can ask her to hang out .. if she says shes busy than let it go and ask for another time but if she keeps saying shes busy or ditches you etc. she isn`t making an effort to be friends and you don`t need that -- also, you can ask her if she thinks your growing apart also .. it hurts to lose a friend. good luck =]
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OK... my friend has a boy friend and they have been going out for a few months now... she doesn't stop talking about him and all she does is think about him... and whenever she is around him it feels like she is starting to disrespect me =( and i have been best friends with her for a while.. sometimes she'll give me looks and give me an attitude in the middle of nowhere... and i really like her and i really want to be friends w her.. but it seems her bf is getting in the way of our friendship... what should i do to save my friendship?
-nobody cares =( (link)
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aww well maybe you should tell her how you feel about this .. im sure you`ve probably already tried this but maybe you can say to her - look, we`re best friends and i want things to stay the same, but i feel were growing apart .. maybe you should just yet tell her you think her BF is getting in the way. after you tell her you think you`re growing apart you should say something like .. im really glad you have a BF and your happy but i feel that once he came into the picture you don`t want to be friends anymore, and tell her the things she does to you [dirty looks, talks to you w/ an attitude] hurts your feelings. good luck!
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my BEST FRIEND, thats rite my bffl!!
WELL i have never met anyone who complains about every thing as much as her.. like she isnt good enough and it makes me feel like i have to help her ALL THE TIME and try to make her feel better about it and im sick of it so i really need you to help me ... (link)
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i think the next time your friend says something to put herself down or says something that makes you feel like you have to make her feel better, you should say something like - why do you feel that way? .. maybe you can better understand why she says these things, but you`re also showing you care. also, something to do is change the subject when they say something, so they get the clue you don`t want to hear them putting themself down. good luck!
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okay so my friends are suddenly being really mean. theyre lyk taking me out of all these isj and not calling me and stuff like that. i wanna tell them but dont wanna lose them as friends. what should i do? (link)
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i think the best idea is to tell them you feel left out .. sometimes people don`t tell others their feelings and then they don`t KNOW they`re hurting you. if you tell them how you feel, they`ll probably try and fix the problem and include you .. it`s not worth it to lose them as friends if you really love them =] Good Luck!
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i screwed up with my friend and now we dont talk. i act like i dont care but i really do and i want to know how they feel. help ! =) (link)
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maybe you should call him/her .. when you call say something like "i feel like i really messed up and i dont want to lose you as a friend" and/or appologize .. or next time you see the person, say hey and act friendly =] good luck!
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Heyy, ok well i have this friend and were like best friends but the problem is that i always invite her over to my house but she doesnt invite me over or any of our other friends, and its not like she has a small house either!! What should I do? (link)
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well if it bothers you, next time you`re going to hang out ask her - say something like do you want to hang out at your house? .. if she seems like she RELE doesn`t want to, maybe she doesn`t feel comfortable letting people into her house. if she seems that she is uncomfortable, try talking to her about it. good luck =]
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Hi lindsey. your freind shannon finley, hopefully uk her w.e. uhhh she insulted the greatest band of all time SLIPKNOT \M/ along with dayna who later insulted after i threatened to not talk to them. i have a short temper n they know it so im thinkin on shud i completely reck them with no mercy or let it slide and not talk 2 thm till they cry???
- Cory (plzzzz help me)
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ok well .. everyone has a different opinion about things, so i think that if they dont like the band "slipknot" you shouldn`t get upset. also, maybe you can just tell them that it annoys you when they iNSULT it directly to you.. dont "reck them" or not talk to them .. just tell them nicely. =]
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hey Linz .. okay hears the story
ok my best friend has liked this guy for like 8 months and she is like over obsessive and the boy even knos it ..he sez he will h.u widd her when she grows up and looks like her older sister who is pretteyer . . . but hears the problem
her best friend [[ not me ]] our other best friend swares she doesnt like him ..
but he likes her and he is always trying to h.u with her and they hooked up in my friends pool like a month ago.. every1 got madd ...then 2 weeks later they h.u on my friends trampline..she spit in his mouth to get him off cuz every1 was there.. she said she would never do it again ..but tonight in the movies they did it again [ btw right now my friend is in the haptons so she has no controll of wat goes on and has no clue ] but im on the phone widd her right now ..what would you do in the friendship situation?
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ok .. i think what your friend needs to do is maybe reinforce that she likes this boy to ur "other" best friend.. if she doesn`t "care", then she is not a good friend at all - although there really isn`t anything your friend can do, for this guy to say he will hook up with her when shes "older and prettier" is rediculous, and he seems like a real player. i think even though it`s going to be rough, your friend might need to move on and not get herself so caught up with this boy! also, if she feels that she can`t even trust this boy while she`s not even going out with him, maybe he isn`t worth her getting upset & obsessing over him! =\ good luck!
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hi ... i feel like i am losing one of my best friends ... this person doesnt seem the same to me. She is friends with a lot of other people i am not ... but i still really want to be her friend ... we have been friends for so long but i feel as if i wouldnt be comfortable talking to her about this ... what do u think that i should do? (link)
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well .. first off, you shouldn`t make it seem like the fact that she has "new friends" make you angry. maybe you can ask her to hang out one time just you and her & do things that you both enjoy to show that you guys have fun together. if she declines to hang out with you, maybe you should really try talking to her about it .. maybe you can say something like - i feel like were growing apart. good luck =]
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i really dont want to be this persons friend and i need some sort of techniques so that i can try to avoid the person .. we have been so called "friends" for a few years but i really feel that i will do MUCH better with out this person . It is a really big annoyance to be friends with the person and i just dont kno how i shuld do it nicely and without being too mean
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ok well thats a tough one .. there actually is no way to NOT be friends with them w/out being mean so maybe if the person calls and tries to make plans you can say your busy or have to do something with your family .. or if they tag along one time u can say im sry i already had plans .. its very hard not to hurt the other persons feelings in this situation .. but those are probably your best solutions =]
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