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Umm I'm 14. I love helping people out. I like to read and hang out with all of my friends. I go to the movies amost every Friday. So I know the good movies. =] Well I love helping people. I could be in the worst mood and then help someone and feel like the world is wonderful. It's nice to know you can be there for people. Well I hope I can help.
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Okay.. i know this maybe sound very confusing and i know most of you are in your teens. this let you know that my freinds and I are in our 20's.. but thing is what i am going to exlpain sound very Immture.. ok well I know I had been having problem with a freind I had from long time and my other friend had problem with this friend to.. so I thought one day we hang out and spend a day and talk.. well thing is that 2 of my freind had a arugment over something silly like well let say this freind name is M and other freind is R. well M was mad at R becouse she not hang otu with her all summer becouse R was saying no alot and busy with her family and helping her borthers and sisters. how ever me and R was planing one day and I was invite M but she to upset with r and so I thought ok. so me and R hang out and become best pals again.. and how ever I got home found out M block me and r off her Facebook and myspace.. I was like what did I Do? i know she feel hurt and think i went behind her back, and i didn't. i wanted to work things out with her to and that i know that R and M had a clast last summer and R not forgive her becouse M never say sorry to her.. well reason problem was let say R in collage and she hase new freinds and busy alot in scool and M hase a boyfreind dont really hang out big crowed. they are best freind but kinda not anymore.. sometiems i am feeling down about r but not worht being down about m will do it to and want me take her side and ifeel like she brain wash me alot of - thoughtts and i use to be so positve not not being trustful and belive. i know i soud leave M alone but thing is i have big heart and i want send her a message tell her hou immture she being and sorry is think i betray her but thing is don't think she care for me and r being good freinds.. (link)
Well if M was a good friend she wouldn;t care that you are hanging out with another one of your friends. Wehave the same problems in High School. The person is being immature, but you cna't really do anything about it. And I'm kind of like you where I couldn't jsut leave her alone. What you need to do is send her a message saying you didn't go behind her back that you wanted to hang out with R and M. She chose not to hang out with you so it's her fault. You should be able to be friends with whoever you so choose.


okay well i have these freinds...

and their always hanging out together. And they never invite me anywhere. except when theres no one else to hang out with.

they make me feel like crap, it just seems like they arent realy my friends anymore.

p.s. sorry for asking so many questions..

.Rachel
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Well if they do that to you, you need to find a new group of friend. That's not cool to treat a human being like that. They just don't realize you noticed I guess, but you need to find a new group. Get friends who will ask you to go everywhere with them. That way you will feel like you are cared for. =] Hope I helped.




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