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Im Joelle, I go to Faith Christian school. Im 16 and im in the 11th grade!

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my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!

thanks....

Mk, if being around you is what she really likes to do, then stop and tell her "look, if your going to smoke, then I wont hang around you anymore." And stick to that. Yea, its gonna be a hard thing to do, but if that is what it takes to make her stop, then it'll make you feel alot better!

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There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas?

Yea, just tell her what you just said. Shut up. Or, if you prefer to be nicer, just say something like, would you please stop talking about how great your life is...or, just avoid that person and ignore them...its worked for me for many many years living in a "wealthy" area and being in the less "wealthy" part of it. Yea, its really annoying!

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dear advicenators i have a friend who cuts herself i havent known her for a long time bcz i just moved here but she does it and she cant stop !!! i would like some advice on how to help her stop ...

thanx

OMG, I so know how you feel. My best friend in 8th grade would cut herself all the time. In your friends case, she probably does it because its the only thing she feels she has control over. Its usually caused by stress. Help her out by talking to her about her life(whats causing the stress or whatever). O, and talk to her mom, maybe her mom can help her at home. Hope that helps.

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Ok, here is my problem. I had a crush on this guy I met about 3 weeks ago.His name is Sean. Well, I kind of did something to make him mad at me, so we stopped talking for like, 2 days. I started talking to him again, and then he met my friend Brittany because she and I wanted to go to the mall, so we asked him to take us. Well, Brittany knew how much I liked Sean, but she didn't really care. She started to like him, even though a couple days earlier she was telling me how much of a dork he is and stuff like that.Well, Sean asked her out, and she said yes. I have a feeling that she only likes him because I did and because he has a really nice car that he got "hooked up." What should I do about this? Should I confront her about it, or should I just leave it alone?
Mallory

Ok well first of all ur friend is for doing that...it kinda sounds like one of my friends. Ne whoo, definatly confront her, if u leave it alone, u might never get him. Trust me on this, I made a mistake about not confronting my friend, and I never got the guy I was like totally in love with. hope that helps

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