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nicole,
me and my friend used to be really close but lately we hardly talk at all and its like we're not even friends. she always tells me i'm her best friend but she tells a lot of people that so i dont even know if she means it. i dont want to confront her because then it'll probably get more awkward and make our friendship worse. i really just want us to be friends again like we used to be. what should i do? (link)
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i understand what you mean, but maybe you should talk to her and tell her that you want to hang out and set a date .. don`t make her make the decision because she may blow you off or something so say to her well maybe we can hang out on Friday or something like that and then when you hang out you can catch up on things and work out your differences .. she'll probably realize how the times used to be and then you'll gradually get closer again. When she tells you shes your best friend and other people that too its probably because she can't decide whos her best friend because she has so many good friends that are always there for her. Let me know how it goes & remember always follow your heart =)
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hey nicole,
i have these friends and theyre very close to me .. lately weve been mad at eachother and kind of mean i guess .. i feel sometimes im treated poorly because i get hurt easily when i say how i feel im kinda shot down. i rele dont wanna lose my friends cuz [most of the time] when were together we have so much fun .. and then theres the times we bicker! also, ever since weve been fighting i guess i feel so upset but all i want is an appology.. wat do i do!? (link)
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My advice to you is this, tell them exactly how you feel .. even though you say that you're shot down .. stand up for yourself once and then maybe they won't shut you down again. I realize that you don't want to lose your friends but maybe if you spent a little less time together than you wouldnt fight so often. Let them know that how they treat you doesn't make you feel good and then ask them how they think it would make them feel if you treated them that way. It probably wouldn't make them feel good so then they will realize how you feel and think about apologizing for their wrong actions. Let me know how everything works out, and remember to always do what you think is right !
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dear nicole,
my friend erin has decided to make new friends with this group of girls who arent really "nice". everyone realizes this and doesnt like it. Should i keep it real and tell her how we feel or just let her leave us? i mean she can get annoying (i mean really annoying)... what should i do?
sincerely,
my friend is a "penis muncher"! (link)
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confront her on the situation =) let me know how it goes, always follow your heart !
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Dear nicole nd kelly ..
i havee these 4 friends nd neither of them r really nice to me but i dont kno if i shuld stay friends with them cuz if idnt idk if ill have alot of friends ? help
bad friend syndrome (link)
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i think that you shouldnt be friends with them if they treat you like dirt.. in friendship its all about quality, not quantity..if you have one great friend in life than everything will be great, so ditch the ones that treat you horrificly and keep the ones that will always stay true. let me know how everything works out && always follow your heart =)
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