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I have a good friend mike and we've been friends for about two years now and were close. He has a girlfriend named katie and they`ve been dating for a year and we've never had a problem with eachother, but someone told her that i wanted to fight her and she thinks im trying to steal mike, and im not at all im not that kind of person. and when i aksed her who said this she said its one of my good friends and one of her good friends and she promised them she wouldnt tell me. and i didnt go to school today and i guess it was a good thing cuz she went around telling everyone false information and saying she was gonna punch me in my face and all this stuff. and now people are going against me and i cant stop crying. i never did this to anyone. and she said she believes me but i just dont know. i told mike that were not gonna be friends anymore, and im just so upset i dont even know what to say to anyone. there being so mean. (link)
People like that, that listen to bull like that, especially when it comes out of no where, are not exactly people that you should be crying over. They are not worth the tears. Just a sugestion, try going to school and hanging out with someone else for a day, and see if they take notice. If they do, and they try to get your attention and be nice to you, it is all probably a misunderstanding. if they act like they dont care or say nasty things about you or to you, dont bother with them anymore. Friends like that will come and go, and are not worth getting upset over.


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Ok me and my friend lets call her Mary have been friends for about a year now and she has treated me like trash. She ignores me and talks about me behing my back but she's the type that will tell everyone my secrets if shes mad at me. And when there's no one else to call she'll call me and use me as a "last resort" she is so consited and she never helps me with anything. I'm not saying im the "perfect friend" because im not so great either, but i don't talk about her behind her back untill well basically now. She always calls me a bad friend when i don't do anything, and i think she's using me so she can have more friends. So I can't get rid of her. Please What should I do???

Please help me!!!! :) (link)
You need to tell that bitch that you dont appreciate her talking about you and disrepecting you, and if she cant be a good friend to you until she dosen't have anybody else to turn to, then she can go to hell, because you aren't on nobodys backlot. If you don't let her know that soon, you will end up going insane. Trust me, because i have been there and made that mistake before, more than once. hope that helps.




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