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MY NAME iS GERiLYNN && i LiVE iN NEW 0RLEANS, L0UiSiANA. i L0VE WHERE i LiVE BCUZ i THiNK iT iS PRETTY MCUH 0N 0F THE BEST PLACE 0N EARTH. i`M ATHLETiC && i`MA CHEERLEADER. i L0VE MYSPACE. i SH0P AT ABERCR0MBiE AND YES; i`M PREPPY BUT D0NT BE QUiCK T0 LABEL ME BCUZ i HAVE DiFFERENT SiDES T00. i HAVE A VERY MiXED HERiTAGE BCUZ i AM BLACK FRENCH SPANiSH ETC. && i`M PR0UD 0F MY CULTURE =] i HAVE AWES0ME FRiENDS AND AN AD0RABLE B0YFRiEND WH0 i L0VE

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So, my best friend and I were hanging out the other day. He asked if I thought my sister had had sex with her boyfriend. I said "yes" and he called her a slut. He might have been joking, I'm not sure. So I was pissed (justifyibly, yes?). I was talking to my sisters boyfriend, and he mentioned him. I said "yeah I'm not very happy with him right now" and he said "why" and after much persuasion, and a threat to punch him in the face, I told him exactly why. Now my best friend is denying it, and not letting me explain. Who's at fault? Is it me, for telling Brandon, or my friend, for calling my sister a slut, or is it mine for telling him yes in the first place (and taking him seriously)?

Should I just ignore him and let him come around, or should I call him/go to his house/write him a note/etc? I miss him so much already and it's only beem 2 days :(

i don`t you shoulda told you sister`s business in the first place.. and i dont thnk it was his place to call her a slut either.. i thnk oyu should write a note if you cant call. or go over theree. i hope y`all can work it outt.


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okay, so my friend just broke up with her [ex]boyfriend after 10 months of them going out. she said she doesnt like him like that any more and just sees him as a friend and wouldnt ever go out with him again. she even told me that if any of her friends were to go out with him after this, she would want it to be me. and recently ive really started to like him and so i flirt with him every once in a while. i know he is really bummed about them breaking up, but he is such a nice guy, and has every perfect quality, and i just cant help but to be attracted to him. am i a bad friend for this?? what should i do?!

i D0NT THiNK THAT MAKES Y0U A BAD FRiEND BECAUSE SHE PRETTY MUCH 0K - ED iT S00 SHE CAN`T GET MAD iF Y`ALL D0 G0 0UT. iT`S A TRiCKY SiTUATi0N BECAUSE EVEN TH0UGH SHE SAYS iT D0NT B0THER HER iT MiGHT BUT iT D0ESN`T MAE Y0U A BAD FRiEND iF SHE`S HiDiNG FEELiNGS FR0M Y0U.


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