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i am all mixed up with my feelings rihgt now becuz my friend is alwayz getting mad at me for everything and then every time i tell my self that i am not gonna let her walk all over me any more and then i alwayz do. i mean i feel bad for her cuz her parents just got divorced and like yeah but i am having really hard time s with my fam. too and she doesnt care but really my qwestion is what should i do to make her stop walking all over me???

Don't let her walk all over you when she trys to tell her to stop! If she tells you what to do right off the bat to do something then say no, i would suggest you explain to her that the only reason you do things is to be kind and nice, not because u have to!if she doesn't ask you nicely you don't have to do anything for her, also you could tell her that you did it to be kind, not because you had to. oyu can also tell her thats its not your fault that her parents are divorced, and tell her not to take it out on you, and you have your own family problems to deal with. wen you do this i would suggest doing it in person or on the phone, not in email because she might take it the wrong way. Wen you say this to her, try not to sound mean, and if she keeps interupting you, then just say LISTEN! Try to say it in a nice way so she doesn't get upset! hope i helped! good luck

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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx

well, wut ur dad did is wrong. it depends what u think being bossed around is. but don't let ur friend anwser questions for u you can talk by urself. If she tells u wut to do all the time then yes she is bossing u around! but all i can say is u pick ur friends, not ur dad

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Hi um my two best friends are mad @ each other (they like hate eachothers guts) but, they invited me to there parties that are on the same day and time? i dont know what to do!
signed,
torn in two

Dear torn in two,
well, you can go to one girls party, for half the time, then split to the other girls party, (if your mom wants to drive you all the way there that is) but that way everyone wins!

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