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imm back,
well i sortof cant do that becuas they cut me out of evertyhting wat am i suppsosed to do i mean i love my new friends but i would like to hang out with the others too you know wat happened to u?
friends or no?

DEAR FRIENDS OR NO,


sorry that i didn't help the first time around. its really diffiuclt sorting out friends problems. well i guess its up to you to decide whether you have more fun with your new ones or if you remember better time with the old. i mean a true friend is always supposed to be there for you and if your old friends are treating you wrong, then i guess they aren't the right friends for you. but like i said maybe have like a party or a big hangout of your new and old friends. i mean if that's going to cause problems than probably better off to refrain from doing that. i know its hard switching to another group of friends - but thats what happens, you meet new people which adds to your social life and people change and it happens to everyone. maybe its better off you forget about your old friends for a while; even if you don't want to..but if they're not treating you right, then its not fair for you to be taken advantage of and be treated like garbage. but like i said - whoever you felt more happy with than try to hang out with them more. if not, stay with your new ones.


so sorry for not helping,
HEREtoHELPx3

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heyy
well i am really confused with my friends!! I was really pop but then no on enew how neglected i felt and now im like total blocked form them. they talk to me in school but it is like they never liked me. I have fridns now and i like but sometimes idk if it is the same.

friends or no?

DEAR FRIENDS OR NO,


i went through the same thing. idk how old you are but it could be where the girls start to go their period of time when they develop and get all emotional. here are some tips:


1)confront them. tell them how you feel. acutaully ask if they like you or not. but dont ask too much - i did and people get annoyed; believe me :\
2)invite them more to places. one way to show you still love them as friends is to invite them to your house. have more fun with them so you can become reconnected with them
3)make new friends. making new friends is scary but it's a great way to show off your true self. show people that you aren't afraid to be daring and show that you are a social butterfly.
4)be more social. the more you get involved in conversations at parties or in school - the more attention you'll get. but dont be a stuck up center of attention. no one likes that. just be yourself. be open. tell funny stories and jokes. and just mingle. dont ever sit in a corner and mope during a party - it doesn't work..trust me :\


hope i helped,
HEREtoHELPx3

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