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I know that its bad to do, but I want to go from brunette to blonde by myself. What is some good hair dye that will get the job done? Last time i tried blonde dye from garnier fructis and it didnt do anything.

Also I saw a commercial for hair dye that is meant for drastic changes like this but i cannot remember the name of it to save my life. It might of been 'vibrant' or 'vivid' something. But idk :/

THANKS!

since you are going from dark to light, you'll kill your hair if you use drugstore products to try and bleach it. plus, it will honestly take you maybe 4-5 applications of it just to turn it orangy-yellow. if you really wanna do it yourself, go to a sally beauty supply because you're gonna need the right dye, toners, etc. for your hair. don't worry if you don't know what to get, sally beauty usually has a specialist working who knows what to do for dying dark to light. hope i helped

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I am a teenage girl who obviously loves shopping :) But the thing is, I don't have anyone to go shopping with. My mom lives very far away. I don't really have many girl friends. The girl friends I do have, well it would be awkward to go shopping with them since I don't know them very well and we barely hang out outside of school. I haven't really gone shopping and bought something since a year ago. I have gone shopping though with my boyfriend.. but I always come home empty handed. I just always feel bad dragging him with me to go shopping for clothes. Since I don't have anyone to really go shopping with... should i just go shopping alone? I've never shopped alone before, it sounds scary. I don't want to look like a loner. When I'm in the mall, I see girls my age who are always with a group of friends. I just don't want people to see me and be like "oh she's alone. sad."

what should I do??

honestly, there's nothing wrong with shopping by yourself. i do it all the time. trust me, there's nothing to worry about, believe it or not, no one's looking at you or saying anything about you being alone. to be honest, no one really cares who you're with when you're shopping! haha. i love going shopping by myself because i don't have to rush and can take my time trying outfits on. you don't feel guilty dragging people along and it's actually nice to give yourself some "me" time. try it and you'll realize it's very refreshing.

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I got my first pair of skate shoes and I have no idea what i should be wearing with them.

Can anyone help me pick what kind of jeans to wear so I don't look stupid? XD

Thanks!

my younger brother wears skate shoes all the time, he wears tight jeans though. skinny jeans look cute on both guys n girls! flared jeans are cute, but sort of outdated. although, i've seen some girls rock a baggy boy jean and they pull it off! i hope you find something that works for you, good luck!

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Do most guys like belly button rings? im 17 and i want a belly button ring but one of my guy friends said theyre trashy. im still getting it, i just want opinions haha. Thankss =]

i think they're cute ^^ i personally have one!

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Okay, I straighten my hair when i go place, due to my hair being so short, plus the fact that it's cute. lol.


As pretty much everyone knows, heat is bad for your hair.

well, I've had fried hair before, and its really ugly.


that's why i got my hair cut actually.


So, i use t=his product paul mitchell, and it's spray for extra conditioning, and such.

I also use it to maintain a somewhat healthyness.

Does anyone know any product i could use for my hair to keep it from being fried?

and make it healthier?

like a spray?


oh, and please don't give me very expensive things, i'm not rich!

advanced thanks!

i always torture my hair too with products, straighteners, and curlers so i completely understand. if these things can work for my overworked hair, it can work for yours too! first, i use dove shine therapy shampoo and conditioner, i leave in the conditioner for about 3-5 minutes depending on how bad my hair is. then before i style my hair, i use sedu volumizing heat protection boost (it not only protects your hair from heat, it enhances the effectiveness of your blowdryer too)!

hope i helped :)

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21/f

I'm frustrated with people thinking I am much older than I am. I feel like I'm still young and should be able to experience youth while I still can. However, there are a lot of fashions I like but am afraid to wear because they might be "too young" for me.

I was wondering: How do you know what is appropriate to wear for your age?

Should I be more daring so people know that I'm 21, and not 35?

You can still be sexy while being classy! Things like pairing a high waisted skirt with a cute top will keep you looking youthful yet people won't think you're immature. Also, jeans and heels are great together with a tee (dressy/casual at the same time). The best advice I can give you is to pair high end pieces with low end pieces, dressy clothes with casual clothes and you'll have the perfect outfit.

Hope I helped :)

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All of my friends are at the beach now without me, again (for the 3rd year in a row because I'm grounded again). I want to look good when they get back, as in I want a really nice tan. What is the best way to get a tan? I don't want tanning spray and lotions unless they're really good and look natural. Just how do I get a good tan in a week? And will it look natural or can that not be possible?

there are three things you could do:

1. apply a tanning lotion and sit out in the sun (i suggest banana boat ultramist continuous spray suncreen deep tanning oil, it has spf in it so it'll actually protect you from the sun while making you tan)!

2. go to the local tanning beds which will pretty much tan you instantly.

3. self tanner (i suggest jergen's natural glow, it'll show results in 3 days.

hope i helped!

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Hey, do u no how 2 do messy buns 4 short hair?

curl your hair with a 1/2 inch curler, let the curls cool and run your fingers through your hair, then take a rattail comb and start teasing random sections of hair (make sure to tease the crown too so you can get some volume!), start pinning the ENDS of your hair loosely, and leave a few pieces of hair out as you wish, there you go!

hope i helped!

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okay well i appreciate you answering my question about lip peircing before, and now i have some other basic questions about it.

1) does it leave a scar if you decide to take the piercing out and let it close? if so, how bad/noticeable is it?

2) is it really hard to eat? what foods should i stay away from if i get my lip done?

thank you so much..
Katie

1) it can leave a bad scar if it's been infected, but most of the time it will leave a slight brown mark that will disappear within a week or so.

2) it's not hard to eat at all! just make sure to eat slowly and carefully though just in case when you first get it done so you don't end up accidently tearing something!

hope i helped :)

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