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I believe that most answers to pressing questions are already within all of us and are only waiting to be molded into answers; some questions have no answers and will forever remain a mystery. Alas! Sometimes mystery is the answer and the path toward enlightenment is in the quest.
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Okay my name is barb(ara)and im despratley in need of help.Last night i kried myself 2 sleep.I ussaly sleep at 11:00.its been one week now im sleepin at 1 a.m.Im soo mad like my mom and dad work even through summer and my dad works on saturdays and sundays soo like im always bymeslef stuck in my house doin nothing but x-box,tv,and computer.And my grandma is very cuatious bcuase she used 2 live in a huge city the 3rd biggest.So she wont even let me in our frontyard.I kno she kares but 2 much!I kant even watch bug juice becuase i hate seeing people hav fun while im not.And my friend kalled from summer camp n shes tottaly having fun i jus hung up on her!Please HELP BEFORE I BECOME TOTTALY SUMMERLESS AND I KRY 2 DEATH! (link)
Find a hobby. Do you like to draw? Or would you like to play a musical instrument? How about going to a summer camp where you will be supervised by adults (so grandma won't worry)? Are there any youth groups you can join? Maybe you can join a choir if you like to sing. The answer is to be active. Don't just sit around and watch TV or play video games. Get out and meet others, join groups, attend classes, and seize the opportunity to be active and involved! In my opinion, you'll find happiness that way.


I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
I believe that education is paramount to the success of spiritual growth. It is a good thing to live in the question. Keep delving into history and you will become more aware through time that humans have had many different opinions throughout the ages and that these opinions are just opinions, which are no greater or lesser in value than your own. Moreover, dogma is often borne of myth and folklore. No one really knows the truth of the universe. We can only speculate and reason. But please do not discount the power of "goodness". I believe it is an essential ingredient for happiness. A "story" that promotes kindness and benevolence is still a good lesson to follow for your own benefit.




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