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I really didnt know what to put this under so im sorry if its in the wrong catagory.
k well iv wanted to ask this qurestion for a while now but have been too hesitant. im 19 female if you need to know.
iv really been questioning religon lately. both my parents have their own religon, which i wont mention what it is because thats not the point. they feel very strong about it and believe in it. They think i should believe in it to because they think its the only way i will go to heaven or have a happy life etc.
when i was 4 i was continuously molestered to some random bastard,iv always been blamed for everything that happens within the family like arguements etc,i had a tumor which was cancerous,my bf proposed to me but found out that he only did it so he could get the green card etc (very long story).
my parents say that things happen to me because im not a good person i do bad things then bad things will happen to me so they assume im a bad pperson.this has really made me question things like what do i really believe in?i dont think i believe in my parent's religon.how do i know if this is the right religon to follow?i mean theres soo many religons out there which one is right?im so confused because i guess i want to believe in soemthing and im scared that if i dont believe in my parents religon then ill go to hell or bad things will happen to me in this life.its made me really depressed and emotional.i cant talk to my parents about it because they will be so angry (they think their religon is the way to go)but what if its not?i mean i was 4 years old for crying out loud how would i know what God is or what hell is etc and i still got molestered over and over again.am i really being punished?i just dont know what to think,im afaraid and i dont want to die not believing in anything :( but i dont want religon to be forced down my throat either.
I dont exactly know what im asking but what ever your thinking i guess id like to hear it.
Thank you, please please dont judge me.i cant help the way i think (link)
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From your valuable letter it becomes clear that you are a beautiful and intelligent person. Thank you for taking a moment to share your powerful experiences!
Here are some thoughts that might be helpful...
Religion by itself simply represents a package created by humans designed to open your eyes to the absolute beauty and wonder we all share...
The word God and the beauty it represents doesn't necessarily belong to any one religion. With this in mind you can be free to discover the true nature of things naturally over time and in your own unique way.
It's true (as you know too well) that both positive and negative experiences exist within nature.
Ultimately, it will be through negative experiences that you will be guided to discover an even deeper appreciation for your positive potential to experience the absolute greatness you already are!
When you can begin to understand these words you will have a great sense of wisdom to share with others who will be asking the same questions as they attempt to understand what you already know.
It seems you are on an incredible journey. Use the negative to create the positive and soon you will live to celebrate your beautiful life! n.
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Im a little torn.Ive just stopped caring in life if I live or not and its scaring me.I feel as if I am ready for death or something. (link)
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It's a scary feeling isn't it? It's as if on one day something as simple as a nice deep breath or a brilliant sunset is more than enough to bring a warm smile to your beautiful face, but then the next day those same things seem to have lost their meaning...
The simple fact that you care deeply enough to express such thoughts in your important letter lets me know you definitely have what it takes to move yourself to the other side of this experience.
To be ready for death is not such a bad thing. This means you have also lost any fear you might of had of living. This means you can start to really live and experience your wonderful life without any hesitation! What a great gift! In a sense now you are finally free!
In fact, now you can begin to wake yourself up and to really come alive as you make a full return to back to happiness with an even deeper sense of appreciation for the beauty of life itself. You deserve it!
Naturally there are lots of things you can do to help this process along. If you would like to learn more just let me know... n.
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