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i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!! (link)
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I don't know any Bible verses, but here's something I try to do instead.
It's easy to think "that person did something bad to me, they must be a bad person and I want them to pay for it". BUT....
They are just a person like you and me.
I've taken to asking myself WHY did they do that?
Generally it's nothing to do with you personally, it's a way they have learnt to behave maybe from their family etc OR maybe they are unhappy and don't know how to deal with it.
There can be many reasons why people behave the way that they do.
It's not to say that their behaviour is acceptable or that you have to have anything to do with them.
But just remember that all of us have times when we do things and then later we look back and think "Hmmm I'd do that differently next time". And hopefully they too will learn that their behaviour doesn't work.
To be honest let's hope that they learn sooner rather than later because THEY are the ones who are putting up barriers to living a happy, sharing and caring life.
So why not ask for light and love to be sent to those people instead of more negative thoughts. Sending love always feels better to me and hopefully helps others to find their way too.
I just say "I send you Love and Light for the highest good and the harm of none" and then let God deal with the rest.
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