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hello. all my life i have been made fun of because of my muslim faith. people always say, there is bin laden, get him.they think i support the 9/11 attacks. my parents support them but i don't. please help me get through this before i go crazy.

Greetings....
You need to understand that people lash out in anger, and anger comes from pain, from fear, and from not understanding. It's not right for them to treat you and judge you as they do, but truly there is little you can do about it. There will always be someone else out there who speaks first, and thinks about it later.
Most important though is how you feel about yourself. To remind yourself that you are not responsible for the sins of another. Nor should you feel guilt or be punished for them. The same goes for your parents views. They are thier own, and you have your own. You know what is inside of you, you know your own heart. Never let anyone make you feel as if you have done something wrong for being who you are. You know what you believe and what you feel, and that is most important. Stand proud, turn your back on the ignorance of others, and do your best to ignore them. Just remind yourself it is truly with ignorance that they attack you for the sins of others. You are not at fault.
~Mysti~

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i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?

Greetings...
Ok, what matters most here is you, not the boys who think you stuff. You don't have to prove anything to them. You're at that point in your life where everything is changing from childhood to becoming a young adult. Everything about you is maturing in some way. And its no secret that boys mature emotionally, a lot slower. They are going to be childish and make you want to scream for many more years to come. I'm 27 years old and I can honestly say their are men my age who still make me want to scream, "GROW UP!". You'll learn to deal with it with time, and experience. For now, the best thing to do is simply tune them out. Thier words have no power over you, if you don't allow yourself to hear them. When they start to tease, think to yourself "They are so childish.", smile and walk away. You'll be better for ignoring their taunts, than if you turned around and yelled at them. Your anger or being upset would only fuel them on to harrass you further.
And another thing. Be proud of yourself little one. You're on your way to becoming a woman, and thats nothing to be ashamed of or to fear. Growing breast is just another phase in a long cycle of growth for you. Being a woman is a fabulous, wonderful thing.
~Mysti~

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