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Alright, I'm kind of torn on this issue. My mom and I are really close and we always have been.
There's just a little background info.
My boyfriend and I are planning on getting an apartment together when we graduate. I kind of want to tell my mom because he's away, earning money to put towards our apartment. She always says "If he loves you, then he shouldn't have gone." and I always want to say "Hey, he's doing this for us," and tell her about the whole apartment thing.
Thing is, she's never been crazy about the idea of two people not married living together. I hate to keep secrets from her, though. She's like a friend sometimes more than a mom.
Another issue is...
Yeah, I'm not a virgin. I haven't been since...april? and my mom keeps asking in this accusatory tone of voice "You haven't been having sex, have you?" (this is where she turns into my mom) and I've been saying "What? No. I told you, we're waiting..." or whatever
But I've seriously been considering telling her. She told me when she took me to get the pill that I could tell her if/when I had sex if I wanted to. She left the option open. I've been tempted to tell her recently.
Thing about THIS is, she hates liars. Like, a lot. If I were to tell her now, I'd have to admit that I've been lying since, like, april.
So what do you guys think? Should I tell her about both? One? The other? None?
I'm just looking for an opinion here, mostly out of curiosity. The final decision will obviously be mine. Thanks! (link)
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If you care about your mom, you should tell her the truth. Maybe you and your mom should sit down and have a personal talk about the things that are on your mind. The longer you wait to tell her that you've been lying to her, the harder it will be to tell her.
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my mom is SO super duper gay.she wont let me stay up late.she says every night i have to be in bed at 10.but i sneak on the internet to chat with boys.she doenst know of course.if i get caugh tho im in trobule.what do i say to let her let me stay up later. (link)
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You should sit down with your mom and have a personal convo. Ask her if you can have a later bed time - since, of course, it is summer. If she doesn't let you - you should obey her. She should know how much you want to stay up and why.
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