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im 19/f and my husband is 22/m. we have been dating for about 5 years and have been sexually active for about the same amount of time.i want to get pregnant but my husband does not want one. we've tlked about having kids before but he's scared because he does not want a girl. i really want a baby and i am fully capable of taking are of it, i can support it financially. what should i do? how can i convince him? (link)
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i think that you are way too young to be married don't you think.
Alright think of this ok... you were 14 when you people first started dating and do you know for sure that he has not cheated on you in those five years. you were and are a kid. (if you do not mind me saying) i say this because he is matchure enough because he does not want a child yet. and then on the other hand he is not matchure because he does not want a girl. and it is not only if you are financally ready it is also emotionally and do you really love him and does he really love you enough to have a child with you and not caring if it is a boy or girl but will take care of it and love it no matter what it is. i think that you are right though you love him and are ready to have a baby but why don't you start saving up first and get out there and see the world why you can with no child. I say go to a different counry, a different state, go out to dinner and make him pay and travel before you go and have a baby. see the world why you can and save up the 1 dollar bills and all the change for a baby untill you reach 1,000 dollars or more and then if you are still with him and he still doesn't want to take the chance of it being a girl he doesn't love you enough to take that chance then he is not the right one for youand again i think that you are way too young to be married in the first place and toooooooooooo toooooooo young to have any kids yet
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