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My brother is 10 years old and he bugs me so much! I know everybody has to deal with this but I want it at least a little easier. Well he only comes in and starts talking to me about something random when I'm on the phone. Then when my friends come over he wants to hang out with us. But when I'm not doing anything like that he just would leave me alone. Except for when I am on the computer and he tries to take it from me. I don't bother him or do anything when he is hanging out with his friends but I don't know how to deal with this. (link)
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It may just be me, but sounds like your brother maybe likes one of your friends. Did you ever think about that? It's a little weird, but my brother liked plenty of my friends. Maybe you should try talking to him about it. Or maybe your parents. I know that my parents didn't do much. They always said that it was just "a thing". When in reality, it's a very big thing. Try taking time out just to spend on him. Maybe he's feeling a little lonely and misses his older sister.
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I don't know where to start....My mom has this so called boyfriend for seven to eight years. I hate him!! He is soo moody!! He'll be nice and then he gets fricken crabby. Once he yelled at me for not liking strawberry juice and not finishing it. Then after I got out of the shower last night I was drying my hair when I stopped he was yelling my name so I go down and it was the telephone so I went to the regular phone then he yelled at me because it was his cellphone!! All these things made me cry!! Then sometime when hes nice which is once a month, I walk by him he'll spank my butt or put me on the couch and tickle me! I don't feel comfortable when he does this. Sometime he'll grab me by the private and put me over his shoulder and carry me around. I hate that! Then when we are fighting in the nice way I feel like he's putting me in sex positions. I tell my mom for him to stop but he keeps doing this! I want to move to my grandma who hates him too but I don't want to leave my mom. If I do move out this would be the second child who moved out to grandmas because of him. My family is not a big fan of him! This is so confusing to me!!Help!! Please!
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This may sound a little harsh, but honestly, if your mom doesn't care enough to make this stop, then you should not care if she loses another child. Your mom needs to understand what's important in life and that is NOT her boyfriend. Her children should be the most important thing and that includes you. It may also include letting you live with your grandmother. You should start thinking about what is going to make you feel safe and happy instead of what is going to make you feel sick, uncomfortable, and disrespeted. NO MAN has the right to make you feel uncomfortable, no matter what the age.
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