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I am 15 and a female. my cousin and I are only a year apart.(he's younger) and I have always been sort of close with him and I liked that. I like being close with my family. but when I am with him it is different. I guess you can even say I have a crush on him & it has been harder to refuse with each passing year and whenever I see him. what should I do. im so confussed & I know this isn't right. Thank you! (link)
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These feelings are very typical. It sounds like your cousin is your best friend and the two of you click. You are at the age where love is about seeing yourself in someone else's eyes. I am going to take a guess and say you feel your best when you are with him. Most of us equate this feeling with love and love with sex. Don't be alarmed, you are in love with him, but it does not have to be sexual. These feelings will pass. Make sure you set boundaries. Get a boyfriend that always helps. Just to let him know that you are off limits and to remind yourself that he is off limits. I would even suggest double dating so that the two of you can have a clearer understanding of what kind of relationships are appropriate. You get kudos for worrying about this. Some people just go with the flow and end up sleeping with thier cousins and then regretting it.
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