i am a typical 21 year old male from manchester, england. the advice i give may be irrational seem stupid but i have been through a hell of a lot in the past 11 years since i was ten and i have very strong opinions on certain issues. please dont be offended by the advice that i give. i say it from the heart exactly how i would do it if i was in yours shoes
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Location: England
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Age: 21
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hi, i'm tina/16 go 2 katy...i have a sister that i live w/, n 2 older half brothers who i dont kno, they live w/ their mom, they dont like my dad bc their mom told them when they were little that my dad abandoned them, which is not true, well i have always wanted 2 kno my brothers bc they r a big part of my life that is missing so i want 2 meet them...i mean i think it would be awesome 2 have 2 big brothers 2 protect me...newayz one of them is in iraq right now, but 1 lives in schulenburg where my grandparents live so thats how i kno that my brothers in iraq cuz well its a small town n my grandma has the same hairdresser as their grandmother, lol!!!! we even used go 2 go dairy queen where one of them used 2 work all the time, n it was so weird cuz i knew he was my bro but he had no idea who i was...but i really wanna meet them n i plan on meeting them someday but i really dont kno wut 2 say when i do, i mean they might hate me 2 4 all i kno, n i dont want them 2 hate my dad cuz i kno he loves them a lot, n i wanna be the 1 that kinda reunites them...i jus thought u might be able 2 help cuz u seem like ur good w/ words n stuff, so if u can help thanx (link)
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do not get in contact under any cicumstances. if you do meet these guys you may be let down and very disappointed. what if they dont wanna see you? what if there not what u expect? if you wanna meet them that much then get your grandma to help you by finding out exactly wats going on
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My grandmother told me a while back that my sister was her favorite child and hse was like id give her anything an do anything for your sister .. shes the oldest Im the middle and i have a younger brother ... My grandmother then told me that my brother was my mom an dads favorite and they like him more then me... I cried then she had never to tell me i dont beong to the family.. Like she dont kno whos loves me but its def. not any of them .. So i cried but then i realized she was a old witch who was just ignorant .. Then a couple years later i turned 15 and my family left me for my little brothers baseball game on my birthday and told me i had dishes to do so i had to stay home and i couldnt go out .. i just cried myself to sleep on my birthday, and i didnt get a damn thing i got a cake the next week saying happy birthday with my best friends name on it slash mine form her family .. i feel like theres a hole inside me where my familys love should be but they dont care .. My mom mad emy life miserable for a whole year when i was 15 i was stalke dby her whenever i wet out and she always thought i was getting high an drunk and at first i would cause i was so depressed but then i realized i wasnt going ot let no one drag me down. So here i am today i just turned sweet 16 not too long ago and i got what i wished for on my birthday i thought i wanted my mom to trust me an stay out of my life but she does trust me no wan she does stay out of my life .. i guess id rather have her hounding me cause it seems to me like she atleast cared a little bit .. once again they lef tme on my birthday this time they took my sister out and had a celebration for her .. does it ever end and once again i ended up being wiht just my best friend... I WISH MY FAMILY CARED ABOUT ME I TRY TALKING TO THEM BUT THEY DONT HAVE TIME FOR ME .. what should i do ????? (link)
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do something stupid. it may sound daft its a very very big gamble but it worked for me. iam the same as you i have three bothers and i am 2nd youngest and i always get left out when i was 16 i felt so left out i went and got drunk and put some windows through in the local shopping centre. i got arrested but when my parents arrived and saw me in a state they soon realised they had neglected me. also try running away for 3 days and camping out in a tent. that will get there attention. but i am english and we dont know any thing but it did work for me
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