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I am someone with interest in peoples life and how can I contribute to them. This world is a living paradise and I want everyone to experience this...
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Hi.. 18/F
I made a huge mistake. Please don't judge me. My cousin(also 18) and I have never been really close until a while ago when we started to hang out. After a while I started developing feeling for him but I didn't tell him because maybe it was just us getting close that I'm not used to. A few nights back we started making sexual jokes and the convention fot a bit heated but then he stopped it. I thought it was a joke. Last night it got a bit sexual again and I asked him if this was a joke and he said no. So we ended up sending each other photos. Afterwards we felt really guilty. I know it was a mistake but how do I stop feeling guilty, help him stop feeling guilty and restore our relationship? Please help me? (link)
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Hi,
I acknowledge you for being so open and realization is the first step to being receptive.
Guilt takes you no where! It makes life stagnant for you. You create your own prison and look for the keys outside.So, stop feeling guilty right NOW.
What you share above is,something happened...that's your past. It cannot be reversed. Now, you have 2 choices, either be a victim to it or be a winner by elevating your relationship, such that you are proud of it.
So, delete the past by looking at the whole thing, as a bad movie trailer and not going for a bad movie but creating your own inspiring story. The two of you are capable enough to inspire each other to live a life of happiness and love, that makes other cousins, brothers or sisters to have a healthy and happy relation like yours.
A mistake is only a mistake if you don't rise up and do something about it.
Committed to your healthy happy life!
Love,
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