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Hi, I am 24 and love one girl I want to marry her but my parents are not allowing us to do. We were in the relationship from more than two years but we never did Sex she want a promise from my side but I cannot give a promise to her because I cannot leave my parents too. and according to me I prefer family first. I told her everything about us and now we are not in the relationship and she value my decision but I really miss her a lot, I tried to forget her but not any other girl is taking her position in my mind.
Please advice me am I on the right direction or not should I forget her and give a priority to my parents or should I accept her after leaving my parents, This is not possible that my parents will agree with this relationship. (link)
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Ok, well I think that you NEED to make a descision, who can you not live without, your parents or her? If the answer is her:
You should talk to your parents about her and this whole thing, share the good things about the girl, and how much you love her. And tell them you love them, but this is your life and you need to live it. And that you will ALWAYS love them and they will ALWAYS be welcome with you. But that you are in love, and that as a grown man you need to do this.
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Because this is going to decide your life, I hate to say it because I don't like being harsh...but your parents will be dead one day, and if you let this girl go, and then when they die, you will forever regret letting her go. Because you won't have anyone.
If the answer is your parents:
Tell the girl that you love your parents, and that you love her too, and that you want to stay in touch with her because she is the light of your life. And NO ONE PERSON could ever replace her.
I understand this will cause you TONS of pain. If you need to talk, email me at my advice email: diana222@gmail.com . I really hope everything goes well for you.
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Ok I'm 12 And this might be a little long so you might want to move on.Ok so just a day ago this happen. I have two sister's. One 15 and one only a few weeks old.So we don't have a lot of money so my Aunt who has a three yr old let us use some of her stuff from when the three yr old was a baby.But we HAVE to give to back. Because of the milk she eat get a lot of junk on stuf like sleepers, t-shirts, bib's and changing pads. We use awesome. My older sister most time's put's the awesome on there but she and me Mom thought that I could help. So my very frist time doing it. She show's me how and watch me do it a few time then she said ok you got it and went back to doing what she was doing. Some time went by then I came to a changing pad. I look at it three time's but I did not see one thing on it that needed awesome. Because my sister said put awesome milk is(pop,pee whatever)I did not know what to do. Say I called her and said:this does not have anything in it. But It was in the bag that need to be awesomed. Can I just put awesome all over it and wash all over it? Then she said: well ok. But make sure that you wash it out really really good. Ok? Then I said ok it did it. Some time later mt sis(the older one) went out to get the Christmas stuff(for the tree) And I came to this sleeper. I again look three time for something that needed awesome. I did not find anything. So I thinking that I can put awesome all over it just like I did with the changing pad. I stared to put awesome all over it.Then My sister came in. And stared talking(before I go on I will tell you that from the door way and can see right in to the room that I was working in.) It took a min for me to see that she was not talking to me but to Mom. Just then my sis look in the room and seeing me look at her she said. look at what you are doing not me. And why are you putting awesome all over that sleeper? Just put it where you need it!By this time she was yelling at me.Then Mom stared come in the room. What's going on here? I stared to answer but my sister cut me off. And do you know what she said? Will I was just telling (let's call me joy)joy not to put awesome all over the sleeper just where it's needed.Then Mom stared yell at me. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU PUTTING AWESOME OVER THE ALL THE SLEEPER?DON'T DO THAT. ONLY PUT IT WHERE IT'S NEEDED!!! She stopped waiting to hear a Yes Mom. I'm so sorry Mom. I was in a shook. To tell on me with out really know what going on. so then my mom said DO YOU HEAR ME? Then I got out of it and Said yes Mom. Sorry. then she came in too the room. WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT? WHO TOLD YOU THAT YOU COULD DO THAT? Now I see that my sister never really know it was all right for me to put awesomw all over that changing pad. It was most likely just something she did. I stared to say:well mom I'm sorry. I did not know. I could not find that thing the needed awesome so... she cut me off.So you put it all over thinking that you would find what needed it.HOW SIAD TO YOU THAT YOU COULD DO THAT? WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO DO? KILL HER?!! That hurt. I looked at my sister how know look like she know what I was talking about. I wait for her to jump in and say Oh sorry mom. There was this changing pad and i said to joy that she can put awesome all over it. She did not say that. But seeing me look at her wait she look at mom then at me then at the floor. Well i got it good from mom. And you know what. My older sister. The same one that most time was supermean to me was supernice all that day. I could have said some to mom after and she would have been like I'm so sorry. I will talk with your sister.But I did not. what really makes me mad is because I stood up to mom for Naomi just a few days before my brithday. And I had nothing to do with it. I just know that my mom was wrong to I said something. And after that you woud think she'd help me. But she did not. I don't know what to do know. But I know that's on my Mom's list one actup for me. I don't want to get my sister in trouble but I want that off the list at the same time. Help! (link)
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Ok, first of all, hun calm down. I have a 15 year old sister too. Just talk to your mom about it, and tell her that you think it is too stressful for you to be on the list. And that you feel like you keep making mistakes, and you want to be a good daughter, but you don't feel like this is the best way for you to help her out around the house and such.
And I think if your sister is like my sister, and it sounds like she is, then what you need to do is just don't act up. Then everything she does will be more noticable, and she will be accused when she does things wrong.
Next time also you could try telling your mom after she cooled off, what happened and how sorry you are, that might work.
And I know other people skipped your question, but I don't skip unanswered questions.
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