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My parents are overprotective. They won't let me go places when there are gonna be boys there. My brother, however, has a girlfirend and he can go anywhere with him (he's going to be 16 later this month.) I am 14- and when he was 14, he was able to do stuff. Any advice to say to them? HELP PLEASE...:'(
-Jam (link)
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AGH! i rember when i was that age and it SUCKED! my parents espically my dad were the same way.
and i have 3 brothers.. so haha even worse. it seemed like they got to do anything and i wasnt even allowed to recieve calls from guys.. let alone hangout with them. honestly i didnt really be able to start doing anything untill i was about 15. it was a total different ball game its like that one year made them trust me so much more. so really i think the most effective way to deal with this is just wait, i mean boys are all drama anyways.. seriously trust me.. but if your not satisfied with that advice i suggest you be open with your parents and tell them whats up. even though it might be hard and kinda embarssing its worth it because they will respect that you were being strait up. tell them what you want in an adult matter,, they will be so impressed with your maturity that they might comprimise with what you think you should be allowed to do!
be open minded though;; they love you,, they want to protect you from boys.. i know if i had a daughter your age i would be just as hard on ya
so even if they dont give you exactically what you want dont beat your self up about it ,, its better than nothing!!
good luck hun =]
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