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This guy is new to one of my classes. He's extremely cute, funny, sweet, smart and just really outgoing. He's always asking to borrow my notes, and no one else's. He does anything to try to find a way to sit next to me, too. I can't even tell if our conversations are flirting or just normal chit chat. I'm starting to really like him, but I do have a boyfriend. I just can't help daydreaming about this boy. He's not like any other boy I've ever met and he seems to possibly, like me back. We've only been talking for a a week or so, and I'm just scared if I lead on I like him, he'll back away. Should I just flirt for now or try to be more forward about how I'm feeling?

Well the first thing that you need to consider is how much you actually like your current boyfriend. I mean if everythings fine there (which Im guessing its not) then why go looking for somebody else. But then again we all have feelings for other people even when we are in relationships it just depends on whether you want to take them further. I would guess that this boy probably does like you and if you want him then make a move but a suttle move. Just make eye contact with him, flirt with him in a friendly manner, but make it clear that you like him, but first finish with your boyfriend if thats what you want.

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