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I'm 19 years old and I'm still an A cup. Is there any way that I can make my boobs grow faster? and why are my boobs growing at a very slow pace? (link)
The struggle of being a girl sometimes eh? There's really nothing you can do. I mean some fatty foods can cause boobs to grow faster but it would take a while still and isn't effective in any way. You're just going to have to deal with it and let nature take it's course. Your boobs will grow, don't worry. And if you need some help, nothing wrong with a little push up bra.


I don't understand. I'm a black girl myself, and 'nappy' just means "(of a black person's hair) Frizzy". What is so negative about saying that it's frizzy? I do have frizzy hair. It's not relaxed with dangerous chemicals or anything. Other adjectives to describe my hair are 'kinky' and 'coily'. Are the people who see these terms as negative just ashamed of their natural hair? To me, a term like 'nappy' is just as negative as saying hair is curly, straight, or wavy.

It doesn't matter if the person who refers to my hair as nappy isn't black. Why would I get offended, when it's not a bad term? And if someone tried to use the term negatively, I would just laugh, because there's nothing negative about it. An actual negative term is something like the N word, something I think nobody should say, especially black people, since it's "A contemptuous term for a black or dark-skinned person". even if another black person called me that, I'd take it negatively, because I don't think anyone should go around saying derogatory racial terms (link)
First of all, you aren't really getting the meaning of nappy. It doesn't mean frizzy or just how. A black person's hair is. Nappy to any race, but usually blacks mean unkept. Untidy. Knotted up etc.

I am a black female, and my hair isn't relaxed, but it's not nappy either. I comb it out and ofc it doesn't go smooth, that's because it's a different texture and thickness. Now if you can't get your comb in or it looks like a bird's nest, that's nappy.

So it's an insult because you're basically saying that you don't take care of your hair. That's what nappy means.Not the texture or thickness.

Hope I could help :) x


Hi!
My dad will not stop annoying me! He will stop at nothing to disturb what I'm doing. I can't take it anymore! He burps out loud, which is really disgusting, and I was just cleaning and he came in and went through the stuff in my room. I'm 13/m btw and I'm fed up with it. Help! (link)
I can see your point, I have the same problem too. I am 15, and when I tell my dad the truth about himself, he never wants to hear it, and gets all mad at me.

Now, I know it is frustrating to deal with this kind of issue, and you could try talking to him until you are blue in the face. I suggest that if talking doesn't work, you need to start asking some questions... Lay your foot down. If he is searching through your stuff, ask him why... He needs to understand what he is doing... If he is still acting in an angry manner, maybe as your mom for help, try to ignore it, or keep trying to talk to him.

Dads can be hard to deal with, so good luck :D




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