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Q: i am a cutter, i think. i recentley started getting a paper clip to my arm, and...cutting it i guess. for some reason i don't really feel the pain, only afterward when i move my arm around. i dont no how to hide it, this is so not me. i am always this happy go lucky girl. im popular and have tons of friends, so i just don't no what to do. i always wear spaggetti straps and stuff, but now i can't. i just don't no what to do, i don't no how to stop. i want to tell my friend, but how do i no she's not going to tell anyone? and i dont even no how to tell her. so, how do i tell my friend, and what do i do? please help me...
Ok no offense but it does sound like your doing this for attention.
I dont know you and dont know what is happening in your life.
But cutting is a serious issue.
Dont take it litely...
A paper clip though? Will do NOTHING.
&& if you so popular with tons of friends you should at least trust one of them,.
I dont think your a cutter.
I dont think your depressed.
I think you just like attention, and cutting yourself will get you attention but not positive attention.
Seriously stop 'cutting' yourself.
If you really depressed go to the doctor and get anti depressants.

Q: I have depression and I believe I noticed it since 4th grade, if not earlier. I'm not another teenagers going "Oh, I'm depressed." My best friend, who has been suffering major depression ever since 3rd grade, told me that what I feel and think are exactly how she thought and felt. (She's diagnosed so she's not making this up).

Well, my mom doesn't believe me and I'm just like fucking discouraged from seeking for anymore help from an adult directly. I want to get better, though, because I'm sick of depression taking over my life.

I can't get any medical help, I'm self harming, I write, sing, do ballet, listen to music, talk to people, everything...but they don't help me anymore. I don't know what else to do.

PLEASE give me something I can do or take that will help me.

15/f
Your mom loves you, so you have to tell her that you need to go to the doctor and that you are depressed. Show her your cuts and tell her taht you want help. The doctor will probably suscribe you anti depressants. Most likely Zoloft because they are good for young people. I am on that and I have been for like a year.
Yes I dont want to take pills for the rest of my life but these really do help and keep me positive. Just make sure if you want to be on anti depressants you will need to stick with them and be dedicated and take them every day.

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nicoledanielle
Hii. My name is Nicole Danielle.
I have a fucked up life.
I have been through alot and I hope I can help you with any of your problems because I have probably been through them also. If you have any questions/comments let me know. :D
I dont want too get to personal because I tend to do that too quickly.

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