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- I am a really shy person, and i dont know how to overcome it. If i am at a party i dont no how to start a conversation (ps please dont give me like ask them "what type of books do you like, what music intrests you what school, etc" But at dances i don't dance because i feel intimated and there are not a lot of people that attend the school dances because i go to a small private school. I also have no self-confidence and low self esteem. I am sure this isn't depression but should i take prozac, see therapy. There is this girl i know who has so much confidnece w/i herself and i want to be like that. I am also considering switching schools (but my parents want me to stay at a private school :/ ) anyway how can i overcome shyness, it's affecting my life and how can i be more confident.
THANK YOU SO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER (link)
Well I just try to get involved. Maybe walk uop to a group of social people and join in the conversation. Having confidence means not caring what other people think of you. Only caring what you think of yourself. Thet can be hard to do. Hope you become a Social Butterly! Try hard a nd it can happen.
~kk
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Alright I think I have depression or am bipolar or something. You see, most of the time I am so happy and I just have a positive outlook on life. But other times, like right now, I totally hate myself and think no one likes me, which I know isn't true. But I can't get this feeling of low self confidence away and idk what's causing it. It's stopping me from having fun with my friends, and that even depresses me more, I don't even enjoy going out sometimes because I fell like evryone is so much better than me and doesn't want me around. I have a great life and I just wish I could not be so down all the time. I sometimes start crying for no reason and just am in a really terrible mood, and then I feel like I'm wasting time I could have been happy. I've been trying my hardest to be positive and happy, but more and more often I've just felt really low and don't like doing the things I used to love anymore. And it's probably the reason why all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm not as close with as many people as I used to be. And I'm not just complaining; I really think something's wrong here. I've been considering telling my mom that i think I have depressin and to take me to a doctor but I'm sure she won't understand. She gets mad if I tell her I've had a bad day at school, because she says I have no reason to be sad. I don't even thinks that she thinks depression is real. So what should I do? Tell my mom? And even if I do, how would I bring it up? Thanks so much for your help. (link)
i am diagnosed with bipolar and you need to talk to someone better safe than sorry. your mom can help you talk to her talk to a friend some adult you trust you need help. dont wait any longer.


i think that im depressed .. hardly anything makes me happy anymore. i hate school my friends my family life .. everything seems to be going wrong all at once im only happy sometimes and thats when im with my boyfriend and thats not even all the time. please help (link)
omg i am sooo sorry you feel that way! sometimes i feel that way too and the way i deal with it i think of things that me happy. if your bf makes you happy call him when your reall down and please dont do anything you might regret. Good luck!




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