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I am not much of an empathic person. I will not give pity or attention to cry babies. But, I will give you the honest, uncensored advice of an experienced man. So, as a wise man once said, "Because I am hard, you will not like me. But the more you hate me, the more you will learn. I am hard, but I am fair!"

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alright well whenever i get upset i feel the need to cause myself pain. sometimes i do and sometimes i just cry. and i used to cut but i dont anymore and im never going to again so that will not be a way of hurting myself...but i want to know if there's anyway to control these feelings. i really dont want to end up hurting myself badly. but i get upset do easily...i dont know im just so confused. (link)
If you get the feeling you want to hurt yourself, go do something physical like running, weight lifting, or wood cutting. But if you really feel the need to cause some pain, do it to other people. No need to hurt yourself when there are others.




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