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Hi everyone, my name is Kim, im 15 years old and i live in western PA. I have 3 sisters and 3 brothers, two brothers are in the services, which one is currently in Iraq and the other is leaving for there soon. im goin into 11th grade, and i play percussion in my school's marching band, and i throw javelin in track. i am a volunteer firefighter, and i am in an ambulance service. im getting my EMT certs. at the end of june. i like to help out my community any way i can. ask me any question you would like, and i will do my best to answer. i will warn you, i dont have answers to everything, but no one does. I hope i can help you. thanks for reading this!

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Sometimes I get really lonely for no reason. I'm always around family and friends but I feel really lonely. I just feel down and depressed. I don't know why I feel so lonely and abandoned. Does anyone know what's wrong with me?

i feel you, i really do. im gunna be 16 years old and i feel pretty lonely myself. i think thats just our age group personally. but if its really bugging you and you dont feel comfortable talking to me, talk to your friends or family. thats the best thing to do and then go from there. maybe you need anti-depressants? it could be anything. but good luck and i hope i helped. :-)
-Kim-

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I don't think an alternative would work. I've tried, it cannot be done, I'm too far in...

do you have a friend which you can trust to tell this too? if you do everytime you feel the need to injure yourself call them and talk to them. you and him/her might be able to stop you.
*always remember you can do anything you put your mind to.*
hope i helped..

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This may be the first question of its kind here. See, a lot of things have built up behind and with me, and it has caused me to attempt to injure my knee for about a year now. But, I'm really addicted to it now, and I try at least 3 times a day usually. I almost enjoy it, even. But, I want to stop. Ever had soemthing like that where you feel a need to stop something you enjoy? Anyways, I went through my mind the steps I usually advise to stop SIing, and none of them seemed to work. There is nobody I can tell, as any will cause more problems than it will solve. I'm very anti-social-phobic, where I am afraid of become a loner for the 3rd time in my life. My parents do not know any of the causes, so when they hear the effect, they want to know the causes. If I ever explained it to them, they'd ruin my life. They're out. So are responsible adults, as there is nobody I am confortable enough to speak to.
So, I believe that the only way to stop is if I get too far. If I actual do injure something badly, I will no longer have to try, thus saving me. I have no self will, if that's what you're going to suggest.
So my question is, how? How can I possibly do it?

well, i know what you mean on that subject, cause i used to be the same way.. what i did in that situation was when you want to (in your case) injure your knee) you should do something else, or think of something instead. for example, buy a punching bag, thats what i did. i bought a blow-up punching bag and hit that instead. Concentrate on something else instead. Hope i helped you!
...Kim

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