Hey my name is Toni, i just ended my freshman year of highschool and like to give advice =) i figured if i started one of these i could help people since i havent done so in a while. Ask me anything and i'll answer you as soon as i can. =)
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Member Since: June 27, 2005
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Im a Lesbian! And I'm Your Friend! Have Sex with me?! (link)
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ok..heres the deal. i met this kid and i talk to him all the time online. he always says im cute, flirts with me and says "love ya" before he goes to bed. i went away on vacation for a week and i came home and he now has a girlfriend. i still talk to him and he still acts the same way..flirting and sayin im cute and all that shit. the ONLY problem is that ive started to like him. now i dont know if hes teasing me or not? so should i still talk to him and act the same way around him since hes not acting any differently and continue liking him or should i act differently and move on? i dont want things to change but i dont know what to do..can you please help me toni? thank you* (link)
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hes an asshole kid, try to move on. if he liked you like you liked him he would never have a girlfriend 7 days when you got back. if he was a guy who liked you he would miss you and stuff like that, uk what i mean... -toni-
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hey toni wad up..
right so i am in love with my xbf, we got together in march and then in april we broke up. now for the last three months hes been very confusing and we've been off and on and hes been an asshole at times, but even though hes treated me like shit i still love his personality and cant get over him.
it seemed like he still liked me up until two weeks ago but then he stopped calling me. he kept texting me though, so i didnt know what that meant. he texted me yesterday morning just kidding around, and i didnt respond.
then i ended up at the same place as him with a bunch of friends last night and he tried to say hey but i ignored him and he didnt try to talk to me for the rest of the time and when he left he said bye to me and thats it.
he didnt even try to talk to me or ask me if i was okay or anything. i dont know what he feels for me anymore, if anything. im pretty sure he doesnt care about me anymore but even so i dont know what to do because im still in love with him and ive been crying every day over this.
hey guess what this is TANYA. doesnt this situation suck ballsack? okay well ive asked a billion people what to do but i need more advice soooo yeah, peAcE toni
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oh man tanya. you and your guy life. from all the people you hang out with im sure someone will come soon enough for you to get over him. how many friends do you have? a lot? jeeze man you met my friend tayla at a party randomly. and ray too. who knows who else haha. talk to him about it.. and if he still is an ass then just dont run back. or, u could run over him with one of them horses. im sure he still cares about you.. but i think HIS ballsack is just taking over him at the moment. things hopefully will change, and if not.. then fuck him. no tanya, not literally. in other words, find out whats up his ass and let the boy know. then move on. to, ted. peace outt -toni-
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you make me hott in the pants, what should i do? or "we" do? (and this is a good friend not some psycho child.) so its not sketchyy lol. if you think about it, you might be able to name me. i'm a girl, and no this isnt a lesbian request, i hope you realize i'm kidding. except, the heat in my pants doesnt lie when it comes to you. lol. after you respond to this i'll IM you and tell you who it was. (link)
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hahaha what the helll. why is there a "we" and not just an I. i'll be able to name you? and your a girl. not a lesbian request? hahaha kidding about what? im so confused. heat in my pants. this is obviously someone random. eirther one of my sisters friends or, my sister. orrr just someone, drunk.
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alrighty...i met my bf at camp and we get along great...he is like my perfect guy. He has been to third and i'v eonly kinda been to second. I dont know what to do...i dont mind goin farther but i dont wanna screw up, what should i do? Just try it and follow my instintcs or wait until i have masterstered it on something else..lol strange question but idk what to do
sincerly,
i dont wanna give a dummy a blow job! (link)
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id say just go with it haha, guys will be guys. -TOni-
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ok...well i've liked this kid for almost a year...and i thought i loved him but then i started liking this other kid? then one day i dont think i like the kid ive liked for almost a year anymore...but then i see him and it makes me wanna cry because i cant have him? and ive been trying for this guy for a year..and its not working? so should i move on...or feel the same way? please help tonz... (link)
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if i were you i would try to move on. even though the both of us know thats gonna be tough. but would you rather try to be happier or keep going with a guy you havent had and be sad all the time whenever you see him. See what happens with the kid u just started to like. maybe things will be different -Toni-
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It's me again. Yeah, my friend is hooking me up with her boyfriend. I have no clue what to do about it...help please! (link)
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haha that is the randomest thing.. why would she do that? hmm.. weird. hook you up with the kid shes goin out with? if i were you id say no. and tell her you wouldnt do that to her. even if she let you. cause she would use that against u one day. If you got into a fight. Plus i personally would never do that to one of my friends. -TOni-
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Ok, here's the thing, I like this guy. He's also my friends boyfriend and I know she really likes him, but she's trying to hook us up together. I don't know, should I let her, or just ignore it completly? (link)
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wait.. your friend is trying to hook you up with her boyfriend? -Toni-
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okay i asked if we could talk and he said no and i talked to him before at that party and at the end he gave me a hug and told me goodbye in the sweetest wat like he used to when we were goin out. tehn we ended up talkin ova this past weekend and he told me he still has stuff of mine like my pictures and shit like that and then he told me he doesnt like me like that nemore but idk if hes tellin the truth. how should i try to get the truth out of him?? i mean i misshim a lot but i really dont wanna go back out with him for a reason in which he broke a promise to me. i mean i still like him and i sometimes cry because of him but i have to find someone else. what should i do?? (link)
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dont keep running back to him no matter how dumb that sounds. the farther you are from someone and the less you talk about them the more u miss them and think of the past. well if you dont talk to him and try your best to forget about it he might run back to you. and him keeping the old pictures and stuff tells u something.. a lot of guys would toss that. keep an eye out on him but at the same time try to move on. -TOni-
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Ok....I really have this problem...I like 2 people in my school. Jon and Cory. Cory is very popular. Jon is not. Cory is better looking. Jon is nice. Cory is really mean to my friends. Jon is not. It's really weird. I know Jon sounds like the perfect one but I really like Cory. I have liked Cory for 4 years...but I know I have no chance with him, ever. I have liked Jon for 2 years and I do have a chance with him. But I love Cory, I really do. But he confuses me...he tells me he sees me only like a friend...but then he flirts with me all the time. Jon tells me he likes me but then he tells other girls that he likes them and not me. It's so confusing and I don't know who really likes me. Please help! (link)
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if you know you have no chance with cory.. try to focus more on jon. most girls end up going for the cory and get in uncomfortable situations. one day you could just be hanging out and he says something about your friends. that wouldn't make u happy, would it? You would only be happy only knowing that your with a good looking guy. And you shouldnt go for the popular guys. Jon one of these days can just change so fast. It happens to all guys. Everyone knows that. If you did go out with jon would u be scared to what people thought? cause if thats the case dont be. As you get older you start to care less and less.. and you realize you just wanna be with the person who makes you laugh and happy. Not the one who makes fun of your friends and is a jerk. Whoever is "popular" is most likely not a nice guy.. it just happens cause they get so caught up in themselves. uk what i mean? Hope i helped. -TOni-
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okay here it goes....i still am like in love with my ex boyfriend (even tho i dumped him). he told me he wood neva forget me and wood neva be ova me and wood be hard for him to find someone else, now he has a new gf and introduced me to her at a birthday party for a family member of his. i was so uncomfortable and since that party thing i have had more feelings for him and i feellike i want him back. and at the saem time i like this otha kid but he already has a gf so im giving up on him and just gunna go thru the summa having fun but then i will see my ex and things will really start to suck cause he will be here for like a month. should i try to avoid my ex as much as possible when hes here even tho ill b at my friends house a lot and he goes right near her house because of who hes living with?? please toni help me! (link)
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oh man =/ well, when hes at the house hes staying at alone ask if he wants to hang out. To talk and stuff. If you think that its your fault for dumping him dont feel guilty. If he loved you and told you that it would be hard for him to find someone else and that he wouldnt get over you, wouldn't it be a lot longer till he went out with antoher girl? i mean personally whoever this is, that girl hes goin out with is like 9439853945 uglier than you.. that usually what happens haha. Desperate boys. Just hang in there. And like i said, the only way things will be fixed is if you talk to him. You dont know how he feels.. unless your like me.. and psychic. And right now i bet you a lot of ca$h he still has feelings for you like you do him. Hang in there kid. -TOni-
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my ex boyfriend and i are pratically going out again, as my 2nd chance. but theres this other guy. ive known him longer, and ive hooked up with him a few times. even tho its summer, i wanna hang out and see him, but i dont want to make my bf mad. i almost feel like i like this other kid, as i love my boyfriend. i have feelings that make me want to go out with this other kid, but i have a boyfriend that i love. what should i do? (link)
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oh man this is tough. But i'll manage. Keep going out with your boyfriend obviosuly, but keep talking to the other one so you dont lose him. You might regrret losing your boyfriend if anything happenes with the other, cause thats usually what happens and then your misserable for a long time =/ idk who this is but i wouldnt want that to happen to you anyways. whoever it is. If your feelings keep getting stronger for the other kid.. write me back. But things change you know,dont make them both stress you out. Stick with the one you love, until you think u actually love the other too. -TOni-
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alright so, i think i might liek this kid, and a few people kow about it, but not too many. im wicked scared that he thinks im a wicked loser or something, and i really wanna hang out with him but im scared he wont want to, and well frankly hes such a cool kid that he has a wicked big social life and hes awlays out all the time, and idk if hell have like enough time to hang out, ya know? and its a real shame cuz i think i might like him alot. what should i do toni? please help me. (link)
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dont be so scared. ask him what hes up to. what hes doing this summer. Ask him to hang out. YOu wont know until you do it. You know.. like i said before, do you wanna be the person who looks back and says to yourself, what if, what if i did.. what if he said.. you dont =/ best to find out, then if he dosent like u or ignores you, move on. Its summer! we wait how long for this stupid thing? 10 months?! haha have some fun kid =) but find out! you never know. -TOni-
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hey. i moved in the middle of the school year and i was going out with this great guy. we last about 3 months after i moved, but he got grounded and i didnt rlly see him all that much so i though i should end it before him or i got hurt. so i did. but i few days ago i found the card and pictures that he gave me and i guess started crying and couldnt stop. I finally found out that i rlly do love him. ive knew him since 1st grade and i like him back then 2 but im to scard to call him because i think he hates me. but if i dont call him what if he rlly felt the same way about me? i dont kno what i should do! (link)
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the best thing you could do is just call him. looking back on the card and pictures will just make u feel the same way every time =/ thats the worst feeling.. not knowing if you should say something then wishing you didn't, or say nothing and wish you had. You personally can't be afraid to tell him you love him eirther. I mean if you do, he might break your heart, yeah, but if you don't, your right, you could break his. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have done. -TOni-
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alriightt, well theres this incredile boy that i lovee sooo much anddd he .:says:. he loves me..but weve been "together" for a while but were not going out? idk he says were going to go out n stuff but its been a while now. what if he doesnt really like me? blah thiss sucks.
love your confused writter (link)
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knowing him hes one of those guys who flirts all the time and makes you just like him more and thats what makes you annoyed. just give it time, and soon it will pull through. Don't think he dosent like you, cause he probably thinks the same towards you as you do towards him. There might be something going on with him too, like another girl, and hes just waiting for things to cool off. Just give it time like i said and i'm sure things will work out. If not.. then write me back. -TOni-
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Here it is I like two girls one I have recently hooked up with and another that I have never seen lol. I don't know which way to go. I like the girl that i hooked up wtih but don't know if she likes me I htink so but idk if it will lead to something. Then on the other hand there is a cool girl that I have never met want to but haven't. S o there are many possibilities that may or may not happen. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! ALL KNOWING TONI!!! (link)
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i got this one. keep trying to figure things out with the one you hooked up with. But at the same time, try to get to know the one you have never seen a little more. Things might come together sooner than you think.. i mean did you try asking the one you've never seen to hang out? ask sometime. And when you do thats when you'll decide whether or not to be confused. Hey for all you know she might like you back and that possibly could lead to something if she lives near you. It seems like she dosent considering you never seen her before. But hey how far is too far.. ? -TOni-
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ok, i like this kid, and you know the story..he has NO more school, but i got school tmm, and now im screwd cause i didnt ask him out when i had the chance:( ya i kno, great job on my part...but hey, i cant drive either so:-P i think you know the rest! TONI HELP ME! ilu kid (link)
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oh man thats what i hate about the end of school. =/ all those people you liked you wont be able to see for like 2 months.. but hey, if you can try to get his sn.. and if you have it talk to him. maybe ask who he likes and try to find out some stuff, but go into it casually.. haha i know u kid, youll be like I LIKE YOU!. wait no.. i mean.. shit.. am i going to fast? haha i mean hey, its better to find these things out late than never. -TOni-
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