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There is this really nice guy who likes me and wants to go to the movies with me (he thinks I like him because I used to), but I don't really like him in that way, so how do I tell him I don't want to go to the movies and that I just want to be firends???
Thanks!!

well i think you should tell him the truth and don't hold back if you do he will go farther

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I'm sorry this is a REALLY REALLY weird question i know i know but here it goes...is there a difference between a jewish guys penis and lets say another religeons penis? On this show this girl saw this guy naked and was like "apparently your not jewish" or something like that and i really had no idea what they were talking about!! Sorry again but i'd appreaciate it if you could help!

no they are all differnet size not by religion

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okay well. i`m 13/f and have never had a boyfriend. i don`t wanna be mean, but even some pretty ugly girls in my grade have boyfriends. and i want one..that i like. i dont just want one because its "cool". i want someone to like me for who i am and such. i dont know ? i guess what i`m asking is how do you think i can get one and find someone who likes me ? i`m athletic, pretty tall, outgoing, skinny, and nice. and i don`t know what else i shoud do ? please give me some advice -- some real advice and if your just going to bad talk, dont even bother..thanks

well,i will like to more of your story because you seem despreate look me up :}

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13.Female.. ok I need you're help. sorry its kinda long.

i really really like this kid. hes not just a kid hes like my best friend. ive known him for 2 years but i just started like really talking to him like in january of this year. he always sends me emails telling me to call him. he told me about a month ago that he liked this girl allie and i asked him today if he still did and he said ya i guess so why? allie has a boyfriend and they are pretty close so i dont think that they are gonna break up, but if they do she will probably go out with him even if she doesnt like him. he thought that i liked his friend but i told him i didn't caz i dont anymore im crazy for him. i was just on the phone with him and he was like so who do you like now and he constantly asks me that when we are on the phone. when we are in school i love how he looks at me. idk if i should tell him already caz i dont wanna loose what i have with him, but i dont wanna wait forever either. i dont know how to tell him i dont really wanna have a friend do it for me caz i think its better that i tell him , but he means a lot more to me than any guy that i've liked before. i wanna be able to tell him before its too late. when/how should i? thanks ill rate high to anyone who tries to help me.

xo-Me

flirt!if you want him fight for him and try to push him away from her or she will take him.....

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Please help! SORRY...THIS IS REALLY LONG, BUT I NEED HELP!!
There is this bratty girl at my school who is like my worst enemy. She is like trying to steal my boyfriend. The other day I caught her blowing kisses to my boyfriend when I wasn't looking. (he wasn't looking either)...Then she is always talking to me and saying "I was with your boyfriend yesterday and we did this...." She always scuzzes me off in the hallways. When this other girl liked my boyfriend a long time ago, she was spreading rumors about her around the school. I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and he said "i don't like her, i swear...we are just friends"....i believe him too, he has never lied to me.....so i know that he doesn' like her, but i am 100% positive that the bratty girl does like him...she has even told me. I am totally sick of her trying to steal my boyfriend... what should i do??
*on so many levels*

beat her up and make gossip about her and her ex[if she can get a ex!]

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okay so i have a boyfriend named aj and me and him havent been together that long, almost a month. the third time i met him i stayed the night at his house, and dumped my ex of 5months for him, and he was such an awesome guy at first and then things went down hill. im grounded for a month but i have the computer and phone back, and he's grounded for a month, no phone or computer, and he lives like an hour away so i only meet him every once in a while. is this relationship worth it? and if it is, how can i make it work? also im a big flirt. Just cant help it.

wait,you left yo man for someone who only gets you in troble you get it together and you should slow with the man take little steps because it will only get you heartbroke big flirt!!!!!

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