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i heard that you can help me with my problems. have many but i dont know what to say to them.

first my friend that ive known FOREVER abandon me for another person.she doesnt tell me anything anymore and i really miss her.Some of her friends i dont like and some of my friends she dont like.she ims me asking if im mad at her but i just hesitate and say "no i would never be mad why would you think that?"And everyday at school i hide my inside feelings and smile(i kno that seems chessy but it works)should i get knew friends and forget about her since she found her own new friends? or keep these feelings hidden?

Then again i also like some people from my school. they make me laugh and smile(helping me not worry about my recent problems)I told alot of people which told them(im sure of)that i like them.I dont know if they got the clue or not? or if they even heard it? I also talked to my REALLY fine friend yesterday and told him a story and he said if he were to be checked out then he would be happy it kind of shocked me that he didnt think he was hot.Now im starten to like him to.hes in a 1 of my classes and he makes me laugh also.
thanks for listening,
Cali-forn-ia grill (link)
well..your friend seems like she has 'better' things to do..i'd say just forget about her..or just wait until she talks to you..and the next time she asks you if you're mad at her then just dont talk to her! *BUT* if you still wanna keep her as your friend, then just invite her to places WITHOUT her new friends and see how that works out?

well..i'm not sure what to say about the second part...because i wouldnt have my people tell other people that i like them or not? i would just do it in person or something..and gossip spreads FAST..some things would get spread about you or the other person even if it wasnt true.

i hope i helped?? but i havent checked this in a longg time..sorry!


I cant get over him! Its inpossible!....now i have a friend who thinks shes getting used by her boyfriend for her ass and i feel as if shes taken the anger out on me cause s he thinks he flirts with my and i let him grab my ass and EH!. What do i do now?
-hopeless (link)
well try to give her a hint that you dont like him like that..and just like try to spend less time with whoever HE is..

it takes time to get over things..i'm like that too..but eventually you'll find someone new!


k. so i like this guy. he goes to a diffrent school but he flirts alot. what do i do? think he's interested. keep flirtin. HELP ME PLEEZ! (link)
well..i would try considering yall to be [friends with benefits] 'cause you never know what he might be doin when ur gone.


Theres this guy..I like him..and he says he likes me but idk if he really does or just trying to get some some some..and he dont really call me..but I call him and he says he'll call me back and he does call me back..and he says he always wants to be with me..and of course i always want to be with him..We always try to make plans on the weekends but sumtimes it just dont work out...:( what should i do (link)
hMm..hang out with him like..alot more..n make sure u plan ahead...i'd talk to him alot more n see how he really acts.


mk. so i like a guy my friends hate with so much passion it's sad. =\ and now i feel bad because i'm worried that my friends will ditch me if i go out with dude.

rawr.

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uMm..well if it makes you feel any better..i wouldnt ditch you. lol. well umm you can just tell ur friends that they need to EFF OFF cuz they are losers. n i'm prolly one of those people that hate this "guy" so i shood be using my own advice! haha well...umm..you should just go out with this "dude" n see what happens..if ur friends give u more shiit about it..then tell em to talk to me.


theres this guy right? i kinda like him but im looking forward to staying single cuz i LOVE to flirt.... but everytime i see him he asks me if i would go out with him... what do i do to have him stop askin me? (link)
just say...

I just feel like being single right now..and when the time is right..I'LL ask YOU.


ok i found out this guy liked me and like i like him so i wrote him a note askin him but he said he wanted 2 ask this other girl out so i was ok im cool wuteer n then his friend wrote this note makin it look like it was from him n it said i dont like i nvr liked u and like i didnt noe wut 2 say after i read that n i got tha note on monday so on friday i decided to write him a note sayin lets 4git aboot this and lets be friends and he told my friend that he doesnt want 2 b my friend and that he wishes he nvr met me. I feel like shit and i want to b his friend but he wont talk to me like after i found out wut he said i tried 2 talk to him but he walked faster away wut shood i do to get his friendship back and 4git this ever happened b.c im practically in tears please help srrie its long

Signed: broken heart (link)
omg...you should effin forget about him! you're probably thee greatest person ANYONE could EVER have...n you deff. shoodnt be treated that way. i think you shood just move on to someone else..thatz hotter..sweeter n wont EVER treat you that way..gosh i hate whoever it is..n i dont even kno them!


ok.. i like this guy.. n me n him flirt like.. ALL the timen like.. i wanna go out with him but i KNO it wuldnt work out. plus.. i like this other guy too. me n him flirt whenever we see eachother n ive liked him longer. the only thing is.. im not sure if he likes me. sometimes.. i love bein single cuz i can flirt with whoever i want n not feel guilty or whatever but then other times.. like when im hangin out with other couples n whut not.. i feel so alone! i mean.. i dont blame guys for not liking me cuz i kno im ugly but i just wish i could have someone sometimes. can u like.. help me out or tell me whut to do? thanx babe.. i love you! (link)
omgosh.. u are SOO not ugly!! (( i kno who this is lol )) MAKE A LIST. lol think of who you think makes you feel...the most loved. n the sensitive one. ya kno? ask people to ask whoever if they like you!!! i like bein single too..hell i am rite now..lol..if you kno that it wouldnt work out then...try to solve it before u go out with him? i'd say go out with the one ur not "sure of" if he likes you!! he sounds like he really does like u if he FLIRTS with you!!!!


hey monique,

see i like this guy an we went to a football game an kissed an now he's tellin his friends he isnt ready 4 a g/f what should i do im in a really bad situation. I also liek this other guy but see my friend went out with an i have liked him before they started goin out but i never said anything i dont know what to do so i guess i need alot of advice!!

so ttyl love ya lots
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welll you shood just forget about the one that sayz he isnt "ready" for a g-f for a lil bit until he is ready? you should talk to your friend about this guy that you like. see if she really still likes him? n if she'd care that your goin out with him!!


ight im confoosed bout my gf i mean she claims she lovez me but then i hear things n it makes me wonder if she just sayin it or wa...but latley iv talked to the other chick a lil bit more n we talked all day yesterday n the night b4 tell 8 in a morning but i can never talk that long with my gf either she has to go or sumthing comes up .....but i love her alot tho n i dunt want to break up...but the other chick lovez me 2 n i like her wat should i do (link)
umm if ur hearing shit about ur g-f..then idk..make a list of all the stuff u like about ur g-f n tha other girl. good n bad. see who haz more good than bad? i cant tell you any more stuff about you know what. sorry bud.


i really like this dude n hes my x andit sux cuz he likes a sevey.. n shit but yeah.. now im goin out with his friend n it sux cuz i like hium but i also like my b/f what do i do? (link)
well u could tell ur b-f? but i bet he'll be a jackass n be like WTF-E n freak out on you..you COULD keep it a secret until its like..really serious to the point u wanna go out with him? sorry i dont have much to say..but i can tell u rite now..im goin thru the same thing.. : \


i got this gf n i love her alot i really do but theres this chick who likes me n im startin to like her....cuz we talk alot more than me n ma gf do but i love ma gf wid all my heart but then again ..it feels like at times that she aint love me like how she says she does but ma friend she tells me she lovez me n she even cryd cuz i hava grl wat do i do? do i stay with ma gf or should i go out with ma friend..?

mr confoosed (link)
i'd say let her down EASY...dont just be like hey. its over. bcuz that hurts!! it'z happened to me before..orrr you could tell her about mr confooooosed..dunno wat'll happen..im not psychic!!!! hope i helped..if i didnt then IM me n we'll talk!!


well i have a gf but theres this chick that i like other than my gf...n i duno wat to do cuz i talk to the chick than i do with my gf..n i think im startin to like this chick but not more than ma gf n i duno wat to do

MrConfoosed (link)
hmm..you could tell ur g-f? but that would just make things worse cuz she mite dump you..? hmm wow this is a realllly tough one..dunno wat ta tell ya sweeet pea! :) sorry! if u want more advice then ask me again!!


monique...ok i broke up with this guy because i wanted to be single n i also like this other guy...but now i dont like that other guy n e more i really wanna go bak out with my ex though. he was really hurt when i broke up with him and i really want him back but i also liked ANOTHER guy but i didnt tell my ex b.c they absolutly hate eachother i really like both of them n they both like me but idk wut to do! ...i dont wanna hurt either one of them by going out with another but ppl tell me i should just forget about my ex b.c they say he's over me when he's told me himself that he's not n he still loves me n stuff....i dont wut to do b.c i cant choose n i dont wanna hurt either one (link)
mmmk in this situation..i always make a LIST! good things n bad things about each person. then see who haz more GOOD things rather than bad. n dont forget to add if they'll cheat on u or not! if it comez out as a tie..then..hmm..pick which ones hotter? lol jp.. well..thats a tough one..i'd pick the one that means the most to you n the one that you think will NEVER hurt you again. well..i'd talk to ur ex face-to-face or call him when he's by himself with no friends over? so that you guys can talk seriously with no faggets around :)ask him if he TRUELY wants you back..n if he TRUELY loves you..if your scared that you'll hurt both..then i'd just not go out with either of them?

hope everythin works out!


I am obsessed with my boyfriend.. I'm serious.. I'd do ANYTHING for him. I wanna be with him for the rest of my LIFE.. and I can't even explain how much I love him and care for him. Is that bad?? You prolly know who I am.. its not that hard to figure out you buttmuncher!! lol! But 4 real.. is that bad?? (link)
noo!!! of course nott "hun" lol i was obsessed with johnny..n jesus..well not really. lol but maybe you could last forever one day like cory n tapanga! :) try getting into the same FLIPPIN college by getting good grades you TOOT CRUNCHER. yepp i kno who this is. theres only ONE person that callz me "buttmuncher" besides JACKASS! lol..anywayz..you n mitchell whoopz i mean this guy..will probably end up getting married n havin like a bajillion kids by the time ur like..16? then he'll have to PERMANATELY stay with you..LOL its NOT bad being obsessed..like i am with ASHLEE SIMPSON!!!!!! muahahahaha :) hope you n mitchell WHOOPS AGAIN i meant this guy* last FOREVER N EVER im sure no HOOKERS will get in between you guys. n you kno that we'll always get our "buddies" to kick whoever's ass it may be!


you probally know him but id rather ask him out myself or at least talk to him And its wierd b.c he does flirt with me and he says he doesnt like me god this is frustrating!!!!! lol i so wana talk to him about this but i cant well ill prolly get advice from u again but till then bye! (link)
mmk!! i hope everything works out the way you want it too..i lovee you whoever you are!!


being single roxx sometimes.. but other times i hate it. i feel left out sometimes.. but then again i can flirt with whoever i want. i wanna go out with someone but theres only one person who likes me n we didnt work out at all. idk whut to do n idk how to get rid of my problems. can ya help me babe? (link)
well..maybe you can flirt summ more with other people...see who startz to like you..if u just dont think the flirting is working then maybe you can talk the problemz out with *whoever that may be* n then try to go for it again? if it doesnt work then hell he aint worth ur time :)!


see my friend has already asked him if he likes me and he wont even give him an answer and i really want to know its jus buggin me like hell. And it wont stop. (btw: thanks for all the advice) but like ive actually had 3 friends ask him and he says nuthin 2 them and acts like nuthin has happened between us. And i flirt with him and he flirts with me which is why i dont get why he doesnt like me (link)
well..if he flirts with you then that must mean he likez u..n it doesnt matter if its the slightest little bit..you still have a chance if u think he likez you? do i kno this person? maybe i could ask them...just a thot. :)


ok. so i met this peron like a year ago and at first it was just a lil crush but now i like them alot.. but they want nothin to do w/me.. and idk how to handle it.. should i just let it go? or wait it out.. like i heard some stuff that gave me confidence or w/e.. yet alot of ppl like this person.. so its kinda hard to sit back.. so i really donno what to do.. and i can't talk to them about it b/c they don't like to talk about it or somethin.. and i'm willin to wait as long as it takes.. but i don't want somethin to mess it up along the way...!? HELP ME! (link)
have one of their CLOSEST friendz to ask them if they like you. you shoodnt let him go if u truely think hez the rite guy for you..n if he startz to act like a jerk then he dont deserve you. hope it workz out..LYL!!


well you see we are friends ive known him since last year and like he said no one else likes him thats why i asked him out so what should i do i mean i cant 4get him its like a VCR in my head like it plays and rewinds and it wont stop. HELP! (link)
like i said before..ask one of his closest friendz to ask him if he likez you. ive done it before. n it worked a couple of timez. after i found out that they did..i flirted with them a lil more than i did n they eventually asked me out.




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