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how can u tell if ur a good kisser or not...i havent had my first kiss and i wanna make sure....i dont wanna go up to him and ask if im a good kisser.....any other ways? (link)
ya same here well i heard if you can tie a cherry stem in your mouth your a good kisser. i also heard if you can unrap a starburst or now and later in your mouth your a good kisser. if you can't do either i heard that kissing on the back of your hand is good practice.


How often should a couple in their 20's go out together. Mind you we both work and have baseball a few nights a week. (link)
2 or 3 times a week because you should also be hanging out with your friends and family because your still young.


17 female.

So Ive been dating the guy of my dreams for about 7 months now. The problem is... hes not as perfect as I thought he would be.

He's had alot of girlfriends before, and hes slept with 4 of them, including a co-worker he never actually dated.

Hes the only guy Ive ever had sex with, so its hard for me. Its intimidating, and I feel like Im not good enough as they were and all the other stupid stuff us girls think about.

I feel like if I don't get over it, it's going to ruin the relationship eventually.

Hes told me repeatedly that they mean nothing to him and tried to reassure me but nothing really seems to help. Anyone got a good idea? (link)
Well i know it probaly is hard for you because that would annoy me too. If he never talks about them then they really don't mean anything to him. When it starts to bug you think of how much he likes you and all the fun times you've have together.


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How long should you wait after hooking up with a guy and not recieving a phone call before deciding if he's used you or not? Sorry if that was a little confusing to understand, but it's been a week now and im not sure if i should just forget about him and move on, i really just can't stop thinking about him and i know after having sex the guy should at least call if he cares about the girl at all right? i mean if he dosent.. does that mean he has no feelings for her whatsoever? (link)
well if he hasn't contacted you in a week obviouly he is a jerk and he just used you. So, just find another guy.Don't waste your time on that guy anymore.


ok, this guy asked me out and i think he's pretty cute and i used to have a crush on him. The only thing is he asked me out over myspace and at first i thought it was a sincere question but im starting to doubt it and i think it was someone doing it as a joke...how do i find out if it was really him or just one of his friends playing around? (link)
ask him if he is really asking you out in person, call him, or text him.


ok this is kinda embarrasing and it sounds totally stupid but i really want one of those summer flings, and summers almost over and i havent really had one sooo is there anyway to get one haha (link)
that doesn't sound stupid at all. I'm sure there are many other people out there who want one too. Well anyway go somewhere in public like the beach or the mall or something. Don't go with a lot of friends because then some guys might get nervse to walk up to you. Just take one friend or go by yourself. Also be outgoing and friendly.look a guy in the eyes for a couple seconds then smile an look away. so guys will want to go up to you and start a conversation and know your interested hope that will help you good luck.




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