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Hey, well i feel really stupid doing this, but i need to get this out. You dont have to read this if u dont feel like it. Well, theres this boy. Woah, hes perfect, well for me. & so in 6th grade we went out 2 times. yeah, and that was it.. all through 7th grade we didnt really talk, and in 8th we talked a little.. but he doesnt like me.. and ive liked him since the day i met him.. so, my problem is that i have no idea what to do. like i dont think that there is a way to possibly get him to like me, but i CANT move on? really, he's the kind of guy that can be the SWEETEST guy to you when he likes you, like even as a friend.. and then he can be mean to some people? Sometimes he will joke with you, but you cant really joke to him about him, or he'll get really affended. & when he's online i'll want to IM him SOOO bad, but i just cant? i get nervous, and then i think that if i IM him, he will get annoyed of me? and i never know what to say? when i get nervous i start to make jokes, and then i just look stupid. i just want to tell him everything he means to me, because he's the only guy i've ever actually loved, but he wont ever love me. well, i dont think so. Do you think i should tell him, or what? thanks for listening.


thanks soph, u know who this is, right?

actually i have no clue who this is lol. tell me though lol.

ok well try to act cool. just think that if your nervous you'll sound stupid and you don't want that. don't tell him how you feel just yet. be more friends with him. so when you get more comfortable with him. hope i helped.

-sophie

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okay..i'm 14 and i started havin sex at 13...i'm up to 9 people now and its horrible! i can't stop and i dont know what to do! i've tried so hard...i just wanna find a nice guy to start a relationship with but i just cant find anybody! please help me i don't know what to do

P.S. u dont know me!
i dont know u!

try finding a guy who you don't really know. or who doesn't know you. just take it slow. you can't have sex all the time or ur relationship will like dissolve insainly.

-hope i helped
sophie

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how do you get a girl freind?

Well first you have to find out if they like you, then you ask em if they will be ur gf ( if they like you ) and talk to them a lot also. Well i hope i helped bye

-sophie

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I really, really like this guy Andrew. He liked my other friend, Xochitl, but he might still like her...I tried to hook them up, but she rejected him. I gave him all sort of ideas. But he came up with a sweet idea of making her a necklace. Andrew and I became good friends, and I started to have feelings for him. I want to ask him out. There is only 4 days left of school though! I was thinking of writing something special in his yearbook. Like, kind of asking him out. What should I write? Or should I tell him face-to-face that I like him? I can't make up my mind!
13/f

aww i think thats sweet to write in his yearbook something like " hey andrew have a fun summer! I like you, maybe we can go out?? well call me" lol, something like that. well hope i helped ya

-♥ Sophie

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well i like this boy likes me & hes real nice & all i kinda like him but wat shud i tell him he really likes me, but i dont really like him?? hav u ever had 2 deal with this???

yea sorta. Well, tell him " your really nice and all but i don't really like you, but we can be friends" lol those are one of those lines from like movies. But it works. U might grow into him, i mean like you might like him when you get older or later or something. You can't really be forced to like the person. But you never know. I hope i helped ya!

-♥sophie

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Well there is a guy at another school that I sort of like. Sometimes when we are having a conversation it gets very awkward and we have nothing to talk about! Is there any good topics I can bring up without sounds nosy or weird? Thank you!

And also if you know who this ... lol ... which you do... don't put you know!

Ok since you sorta like him you don't want to feel stupid,..i understand and say something like weird. Without souding nosy or weird,...

**Movies** but,..thats old school i dunno bout that

** say something that was funny that happened** and if he says ok hes a jerk lol

** ask him like if he wants to meet ova da summer** ;)

** or wait till he says something** if he likes you back he will prob. talk to you alot.

-♥ Sophie

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well you see i like this girl, but i think she likes me, iam not sure though. what should i do?

Ask her if she likes you. Try to make her like you. You might want to be closer to her first though. Like talk to her. And mayb sit next to her. So she can be comfortbale with saying if she likes you or not. Some girls are diff. though. It depends. If she is nice she'll like that,but if shes mean,...well ur scrwed lol jk. but yea.

♥Sophie

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