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Ok so thnks for the "Matt problem" that yu gave me advice for but i got over him...so anyway I like this boy in my neighborhood that is home-schooled and his name is Brandon.. but I really really really like him more than i ever did Matt anyway he has a gf but when i talk to him it is mostly about Football because i go out and play football with him, his brother, my friend dez, and a boy named Shane...and when i play i play takle and i always takle him and his brother always talckes me...anyway i dont know what to say to him...but i did ask him out but he said he has a gf and i dont want to seem akward around him...so what do i do???? (link)
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Ok, first, I'd figure out if you really do like this Brandon kid. Because trust me, you don't want to get into a relationship with anybody if you're still liking Matt. The relationship won't reach it's full potential, and you'll have regrets, thinking that you just settled for something that you could never truly be happy with. If you have really gotten over Matt, then good for you! If not, i can't blame you, because that stuff can seriously be hard to get over, I know from first hand experience. Anyways, if you decide that you really do like Brandon, then i'd try to lay it low for a while, and keep hanging out with him and stuff. If you're friends for a while, and if you get closer and u don't just have a relationship around football, maybe you can start dropping hints again. But since he has a gf right now, i'd try to stop w/flirting as much as u can, which i know can be hard. But just give it some time, see what happens with you guys as friends, and him and his gfs relationship. keep me posted :]
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Ok so, my best friend is going out with the boy i like and she knew i liked him..she would ask me everyday at lunch.."Do you still like Matt??" and every day i would awnser "Yes" and then she turns around and goes out with him what do i do??? (link)
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Yeah...this kinda thing happened to me before too. This one guy that I liked for like 3 months was about to ask me out, and I went to his house for a little party, where there were 2 guys including him, and 3 other girls including me. We went swimming in his pond, hung out around the house, and about 1/2 way through the day...one of the other girls decided she liked him too. She was a lot more forward to me, and two days later, he asked her out. Now, this was at the beginning of the summer, and I brought this up to the girl that went out with him. Now, she told me that she liked him for about a week before they went out, when I ended up liking him for a grand total of...wait for it....7 months altogether. It tore me apart, but I learned that I just couldn't trust her...because she had known that I liked him. People do strange things, but I suggest that you just try to talk things over with her, and ask her why she went out with him. Establish that you DO still like him, and ask her what made her want to go out with him. Now, since she kept asking you if you liked him, that probably means that she's liked him too, and didn't want to hurt you by dating him...but she just got tired of waiting. That isn't exactly a good thing, but still, try to to talk it over with her, and see what happens. Keep me updated if you need more advice.
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