I'm a boring and a-social person, just because I try to keep myself away of failures. Being a loner, I'm also... reflexive. Which at least makes one darn good "listener" out of me. My only passions are computers, music (mostly metal) and animals (mostly cats). Feel free to ask me anything - if I can come up with something constructive, I'll let you know.
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my gf dumped me and im really upset because she dumped me because her mates were calling her a sell out and her grades were falling:( im really upset she said it wasnt my fault and shes really sorry but im still annoyed i keep gettin random outbursts of anger e.g i clotheslined the hardest guy in my school because he annoyed me not a gd idea i also punched my wall n craked it broke my light switch and kiked my door of its hinges im pretty strong so i can do alot of damage what can i do to calm my self down:( (link)
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Hi. I don't want you to hate me for this, but... It seems your girlfriend had some things going on and this is why she left you. Take her word, it really wasn't your fault. Seems like she had some problems, I don't know. And also try to calm down a little, because angriness can't do you any good or help you in any way. If things between you and your girlfriend will settle out, it's OK, and if not... It's a little bit more tricky. Don't take my answer as a general, universal rule, because it's not, but it's something that "emerged" out of my past (and failed) experiences: I lived with a guy for 2 years, but the last year was a horrible sh*t, an immense burden caused by the fact that, despite everything going wrong, neither of us had the guts to "dump" the other one. My point is: when a relationship is getting "loose", it's often not wise to try to hang on with any possible means, since it will - in most cases - lead to a nasty end. Just my 2 cents :)
Anyway, calm down - it's *not* your fault - and you'll see, as the other poster said, that everything will just settle down by itself with time. You need a little time for each "hop" in your life, but... eventually you'll get past it. So try to cheer up! :)
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