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I am me! got a problem with that? yes? GOOD! i like to be different and i don't do anything people tell me.
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15/f and a freshman in a new school

we had 2 dances already and I went to both of them. They were really fun but I noticed that a lot of high schoolers grind. So my question is how do you do it? Like I know the guy is supposed to be in the back and you're in front of him with you back towards him... but what is the motion like? do you move your feet at all or is the motion just in the hips? What do the girls do with their arms?

No links or videos please! Just some advice would be so wonderful! our next dance is in February and is there any way I could practice for then? (notice- i'm 15 and I can't go to any clubs) (link)
Grinding is a type of close partner dance where two or more dancers rub their bodies (especially the genitalia) against each other in a sexually suggestive manner. It is popular in the house and hip-hop dance styles. It is often performed at nightclubs and parties that play house and hip-hop music. It has also gained popularity at high school and middle school dances across the United States and Canada, where there have been cases of administrators attempting to ban it.

Dancing which consists mainly of grinding has also been referred to as freak dancing or freaking.

Elements of "grinding" may be seen in the 1987 movie Dirty Dancing. Lambada was a dance craze that featured grinding actions, as seen, for example, in the movies The Forbidden Dance and Lambada.


this can be a really long story, so i'll try my best to shorten it

i've had the most PERFECT boyfriend for the past year and 4 months of my life. seriously, he is the best guy ever. before he met me, he was kind of bad and didn't really care about anyone or anything, except for his mom. but he really liked me so much, that he was willing to change for me.. and he did! his bad temper went away, and only came out again if he got really mad. now whenever we get into a fight, it usually ends up with one of us breaking up with the other one and then eventually crying and getting back together. :) haha. but anyway, this past thursday (today's saturday) my dog got hit by a car and needed surgery on her hip, which she had and is now recovering from. my family was obviously very stressed out and upset about this, so i had been crying to my boyfriend about it a little.. and he got a little upset with me for always crying to him (which i'll admit, i do that alot.. and i didn't realize until today that he has stress too.. and it can't always be about me.) so i got mad and broke up with him because i didn't feel like he cared about me and stuff (again, i didn't realize he has stress too) so he was calling me back, being stranger than ever! whenever something like this would happen in the past, he'd call me back crying and wanting me back all sweet and baby i love you and stuff.. this time, he called me back to say 'tell your mom i said thanks for the condoms cause i might need them tonight' cause he told me some girl who likes him was coming over and stuff.. then he went on to call me back and ask if i wanted to talk to her and i said sure cause i know she's not there. and he said yeah she is but she can't talk she has something in her mouth. i got so upset because even though i knew he was lying (which he was) it still hurt that he would say that to me! he was my first EVERYTHING and i still can't fathom how he would say such a thing to me. he called me back later in the night crying saying how sorry he was and he was just mad cause he didn't wanna lose me and this time he knew that he really was.. all the other times he knew it wasn't over but this time he thought it really was forever. and he wanted to talk to my mom.. they're really close. and he apologized to her crying because he loves me so much and he really didn't mean to hurt me so bad and all this stuff.. and my mom knows he's sorry because she knows him.. this was SOOOO out of character for him. he seriously NEVER did anything even close to this to me before. EVER. i can't even explain it, you'll just have to believe me. but my dad, he's the tough one.. and basically, i just wanna know how to make him warm back up to him and realize that everyone deserves a second chance.. maybe not now, but in a couple weeks or so. idk i just really don't want me dad to be holding me back from what i think i should do. this boy means the entire world to me.. i don't wanna lose him as a friend or at all for that matter. i know he's sorry and it will heal over time, but what do i do about my dad!??

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR ANYONE WHO READ THIS ♥ I LOVE YOU!!! (link)
well this is just me but (i don't do anything my parents tell me haha) but um... mayb he will grow to like hhim over time no matter how long it takes if u love each other as much as you do your dad should grow 2 like him 2


Im 13. In three months I turn 14. Im allowd to date when Im 14. I have a MAjOR crush on this guy at my school named Mike. He is really shy and really funny and REALLY cute! It started when my friends told me their crushes. I didn't have one. They thought I was ieing when I said "I don't have one" so I made up one. I said Mike. Then for some reason I started to actually like Mike! My knees get wobbly and my stomachs ties in a knot. I can't speak and I cant stop staring at him. Then I found out Kissy likes him. Im usually the type of friend who puts her friends first. But for this I really dont want to. Krissy is kind of shy and she doesn't want to say to me "Back off!" or "He's mine!" and I don't either. I think Mike likes me though because he blushes around me and a ew times in gym class he saves me in dogdeball and he kind of shows off around me. I dont want to tell Krissy this. Bu the real problem is, he isn't allowed to date yet!
What do I tell Krissy?
I really like Mike but he doesn't date so what should I do?
How can I stop getting all wobbly kneed and stuff around him? (link)
love it! when he cn date you cn b 1st in line (but dun love him too much till ur acutally 2gether incase he moves or sumtin bfore he's allowed to date)hope i help! need more help? email me!

cutelilmiki369@aol.com

:)))))))))


what are some things (as in flirting) that girls do that guys like? some things that i can do for my boyfriend or do around him..
thanks! (link)
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