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so i have a boyfriend lets call him B. and a really close friend lets call him A. well so i talk 2 A more than B and then when i do B gets jealous. so last night i was on the phone with B and i told him how i felt and he said ill call you a lot more now and i was like k kool thats a start then he had 2 get off the phone bc his mom needed 2 use the phone and his friend was there also and i was like bye ill see you 2marrow and he said love you and i paused and said love you 2 and we got off the phone. so then i called A and told him what B said and he was a lil sad and i was like whats wrong rnt you happy 4 me and he said yea but he lied no one can ever love you as much as me and i couldnt talk for at least 5 mins and he was telling me all this stuff about me like stuff i wouldnt even notice i do. i just dont know if i should tell B or not and if i should break up with B and go out with A. but me and A were going out untill he broke up with me bc he didnt want to be in a relationship right now and so then i started going out with B.
what should i do?
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confused in love (link)
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it all depends on which one you love more. do you find yourself getting excited when A calls you? Do you not care when B calls you? A good way to tell if you still like B is to kiss him.. If you don't feel anything, then you don't have feelings anymore for him. I think that it sounds like you just want to keep a boyfriend when you say, "should i break up with B and go out with A" .... You should be able to know which of them you love. Do you love B just bc you are his girlfriend... DO you loveee A regardless?? You need to think about it yourself.. No one can tell you to Go Out with either of them, other than yourself...
you just need to find it deep in your heart. You'll know soon enough which one you love more
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I am 16 yrs. old female. He is 15 male. I started liking him a not long ago. Ever since his friend told me that we flirted a lot. After that i started seeing my friend in other eyes. Other people have noticed too that we flirt a lot. I had a boyfriend at that time, now i don't. But after that he would ask me if there were any guys that i was interested in. He has a girlfriend. My friend asked him in front of me if he would cheat on his girlfriend he said no. Another friend told him today if he liked me because he flirts with me a lot and he kept asking her why. I don't know if he is suspecting something. I don't know what to do with this. i want to know if he likes me but at the same time i am afraid of rejection. Is there a way i can find out? By the way his friend told me that what was up with me and his friend(the guy i like) i told him nothin he said he could hook us up. i told him no, i had a boyfriend n then he told me that (his friend)had a girlfriend. I don't know if his friend was just asking me just to ask or if(the guy that i like)has told him anything. (link)
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When you love someone, you can't let yourself be afraid of rejection. You have to just jump into the deep end. Sit him down when it's just the two of you, with no distractions. And ease your way into asking him. Make it clear that you do not expect anything from him, you just want a straight answer. I'm sure he'll understand. Just remember, don't get worked up , stay calm.
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okay um i had the same qustion earlyer but i forgot something my promblem was:
Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..
what i forgot was that: im bosian as well so its not that im raceist or anything being that im the same thing as theses guys are. does that change anything? thanks for the help
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I think that you need to see past their skin color. if you think you like one then go for it. Try getting used to liking him. Flirt a little. And if it revolts you to be romantic with him, then you don't like him. If you like flirting with him, then go for it.
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