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Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl and i have never believed in love. Lately, there's this guy in my college I've been crushing on, and it's the first time I've ever experienced something like this. I don't know what to call it but I always want to see him and I like everything about him even though I know some of his traits are funny to like.
The thing is; I'm not sure about myself. I can't talk to him because his girlfriend used to be a friend of mine but we ended up awkwardly not being friends because of him, though we never talked about it. But rumors sprang in campus that I like him and now he thinks he's all that, and I don't want to be the girl who liked him unrequited-ly so he thinks I'd be easy to get. That's why I can't approach him first, but I don't want him to slip away. He's broken up with that girl now and I really, really am interested in him. I don't think I can get over it now, and it's the first time I confessed this to anyone, even myself. My friends don't know and I won't tell them either because I'm usually the sane, no-shit brains among them and I'm feeling crazy in the head those days because of him.
Please help me, what should I do? (link)
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It may be awkward to tell him how you feel, just do so. At least he is informed. If he likes you, let him do ways to show you that he is worthy to have you. Not because you are brave to tell him about it means you're easy to get. But be ready for the consequences. I am pretty sure that others will make it hard on you. Prepare for all the backstabber and gossips about you.
You're still young and has a lot of things to do and explore.Once you graduated, you would still meet a lot of people. I am hoping that if he would be your man, he will stick with you till the end.
:)
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