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Well.. everyone needs advice even me.. but some people have been through a bit more that others so thats where i come in..im just here if you need someone to pour out your feelings to when theres no one else. Everyone needs a little help once in awhile :-D im sure ill be able to help you in SOME way..you'd be surprised what ive delt with.
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well i have always been a girl how has gotten loads of guys but now that im in 8th grade i cant find anyone that interrest me id ont feel like i really connect to any guys at my school they all r too stupid, too ugly/nerdy, or just plain boring! i want a long term boyfriend but none of them seem to be like that and i have done stuff with boys and now all these boys want some and that is all they want they seem to not notice that im fun adn cool all they want is sex sex sex what is with these boys should i just want and trya nd find someone good for me or should i just go out with anyone and hope that they r mr.right?
Def. don't just g/o/w anyone because that won't get you a very good reputation..but i mean don't rush things next year you'll be in highschool and then you'll have loads of guys to choose from! don't worry if you cant find any guys right now worth it...because it will make it just even more special when you find someone worth it! hope it was if not any help at least some encouragement!
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What should you do if you have fallin for your best friend and you kno it wont work because shes not like that?
it depends do you mean you're a girl and by saying she's not like that you mean she's not a lesbian or bi or anything? i realy can't help that much bc im not sure what exactly you're referring to..
..sorry
is it hoping for too much if you want to marry your bf someday?
Definately not.. i mean if your just going out with some one for the heck of it you're wasting your time! You should be with someone hoping you'll last a very long time..even if you end up not. I have someone in mind that i've always secretly hoped in my mind that I'd marry someday (no he's not famous either!)and you must think that everything will be perfect when that day will..come..because it WILL be perfect! even if it's not with your current BF everything happens for a reason and if ya'll break up that's ok..because i've known people who are married who went out when they were freshmens broke up before the end of the year and went back out as seniors and now are married and have 2 kids! You don't know what's going to happen in the future so just live it up now and hope for the best..because the best is yet to come!
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Yeah well i like this guy alot but he really hurt my feelings. He keeps telling me he likes me but then he just keeps hurting me. I dont know if i should keep liking him or not or just forget about him. I really do like him alot what should I do?
well...this guy seems to be a bit cOnFuSeD himself! I mean you can't just ignore your feelings and stop likeing him but here's the thing...if he says he likes you and he realy does then he wouldn't hurt your feelings..he'd be doing everything he could to make it up to you too! It also seems like maybe he's just afraid to like you too much so having you mad at him kind of prevents him from getting to involved at the moment you know? Try to keep it at a friendly level (it'll make you feel worse by hating him...trust me..been there done that)and if things don't get any better or he just continues to hurt your feelings just explain to him this..(in your own words of course) I realy value our friendship and it hurts me that it might have to end..but if not talking to you for awhile is going to solve you hurting my feelings and us being mad at each other or whatever than i think thats best..you can still like him just don't sugar coat things to your h.e.a.r.t...the last thing i have to say is a quote that is very much over used but it helps to be reminded..
..Don't cry over Someone who won't cry over you..
..and the only person worth crying for....will
.n.e.v.e.r. make you cry..
-->hope I could be a little help! keep me posted!
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Hmm lets see i want a really long relationship with a guy but all the guys seem to be dicks and it only last a week so whats going on do i have a problem
You def. DONT have a problem!! Right now it seems alot of girls are having the same problem..including me! I mean guys seem to be just wanting to hook up and then break up..and thats not what we're looking for! So try this..(its what im doing)..look around and if you find a guy who seems interested in you then talk to him and before you hook up make sure you both know what each other wants. That way if he tells you that he's not that into a long term thing then you can avoid getting REALY hurt and maybe get to know each other better and later on have when he's ready you'll have a long term deal. But all situations are differant and for me I'm just trying to wait it out and hope that I'll find someone..I know its hard when all your friends have good relationships but don't rush things because that might make things worse.
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