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hey guys! i'm christie aka kris. i'm 14, i live in louisville and i have brownish hair. i'M single n lOokin! but anyway. i started this advice column because people IM me all the time with their peoblems and i try my best to solve them. and my friends think i give good advice so that's why i started this page. so if you ever need some advice you know where to come. i'll give advice to anyone! and if you don't want it shown on my column then just email me your problem/question. although i do encourage you to put it in my column, but you don't have to if you feel discomforted. so i'll try my best to respond to every question as soon as possible with my best effort to answer it. thanks for visiting. come back soon and always know that i'm here for you!

advice

do guys think its hott or nott for girls too make ther first move??

i honestly don'T know! but i personaLly think guys are tOo shy to make the first move so i would recomMend yOu do it! but do what ever feels right to you!! hope i helped!
xO..kRis!

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Lately i have been feelin reli lonely kuz of wat i heard otha kids been doin. a ton of ppl have bfs or gfs. Well i haven't had a gf n a long time. N i reli reli RELI want one bad. I like this gurl but she has a bf n i told her that i liked her the otha day. N her n her bf have only been goin out for like 3 or 4 weeks n r movin fast. so i don't kno wat to do kuz i always feel like a loser n that every1 but a few certain ppl hate me n i am very lonely i reli want a gf that i can hold go places wit n tt.

Wat can i do???

The lonely hated loser

yea i'm really sorry but i can't help you! because i am goin through the exact same thing sept not everyone hates me! but i really want a b.f bad n i haven't had one in forever n bein single sucks! n i just want someone to hold me n call me baby! so yea i can't help you! i'm really sorry! but i know exactly how you feel n i would try to comfort you but idk what to say to do that cause i need the comfort too! hope everything works out for you tho! sorry again that i couldn't help!
xo..kris!

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theres a boy who i noe, i really like him, n i noe he likes me. well he broke up with his girlfreind, which is my friend, n we went on a feild trip to a cave, and he was touchin my butt and stuff like that, i didnt care but then wen we got back on the bus, he was touching all over my leg and tickling me like no other!!!some one told me they were goin to ask him if he likes me, but wat should i do, keep flirtin, or back off until i no he trully likes me n im not just some one to flirt with???

just keep f;irtin n see what's up. if he likes you keep flirtin until somthin happens, if not just act like your normal self n don't act weird around him! me best friend told me that last piece of advice and it helped me so hopefully it'Ll help you too! hope i helped!
xO..kRis!

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okay, my best friends boyfriend rides my bus, i flirt with him he flirts with me, but, he still goes out wit my best friend! i like him, and a couple of my friends say he likes me, wat should i do!! if he asks me out wat do i say, yes no bc its my best friend!! please help
hopefully not a backstabber!

if he likes you and asks you out when he still goes out with your best friend tell him no! and tell your friend that he asked you! she would like to know this so that she can dump him!! but if he asks you out after he's dumped your best friend wait a week or so n then you can go out with him! cuz i personally think it'S ok to go out with your friends ex but not right after they'Ve broken up!! hope i helped!
xO..kRis

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Hey, I have a crush on this boy and i'm going to write him a note and ask him out, but what should the note say?

the note should tell him how you feel about him and how long you've felt like this. then you should just be like and i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me? love, whoever. hope i helped!
much x3..kRis

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the guy i like was at this party with me and my other friends the other day and we were all hanging out cuz hes my reelly good friend and my friend had never met him before but she knew i liked him and all, but she now likes him and ive known for alot longer than she has. so today he was all "its too soon" and so that made me reelly happpy, but then i felt bad b/c shes my friend and all and i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.Any ideas about what i should do?

tell your firend exactly how you feel. tell her everything. it's the right thing to do no matter how hard it might be. you'll feel better afterwards and that will help you figure out how this situation's going to end. hope i helped!
much x3_kRis

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okay me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months and i love him to death there's only one problem. school if starting up soon and im worried about him cheating on me. i don't know if i should trust him and believe him when he says he won't cheat on me or break up with him when school starts what do you think. see i know girls that go to his school but last time i asked them if he cheated on me they said yeah even though it wasn't true they was just saying it so we would break up because they all sweat him. so if he did cheat on me there then i ain't gonna know unless they tell me but i won't know rather to believe him or not. i mean i believe he won't cheat its jus one time when we went out my cousin said he cheated on me even though he said he didn't so i believed him cause i thought she was making it up! but im love him a whole lot and im so confused about this what do you think i should do!? --confused!

dear confused
you should trust him! i mean if he says he didn't cheat then he didn't and he won't. just trust him. and if he does cheat then it's his loss and he's not gonna have a good time gettin girls! hope i helped!
much x3_kRis!

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I found out my boyfriend made out with another girl while we were going out. He told me he was "caught up in the moment" and that it was only a one time thing. I REALLY like him and hes always telling me he loves me and is sorry for hurting me.. if he askes me out again what should I say?

i think that if you love him enough to trust him when he says he won't break your heart again, then go for it! if you don't just forget about him and move on! sorry it's so short, but that's the best advice i can give! hope i helped! tell me how it works out!
you know you love me,
.:*:.kris.:*:.

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hey,
ir ealyl lyk this guy n my friend just started lykin him n now she goes out with him should i stop lykin him r not?!
**cOnFuSeD**

dear confused! omga! that is like exactly what's happening with me! okay so my ex-boyfriend of a year and a month just broke up last tuesday! so then like that thursday my friend bailey starts flirting with him and rubbing in how they had gone out for three years and all that shit! so i get mad and now they go out! so i mean i'm always gonna love him, but i think i'm over him now! i think you should stop likin him! but it's your decision! if you think they won't work out stick with it! if you don't feel strong feelings for him tho, get over him! hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
you know you love me,
kris

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why do guys break up with girls just to go with their ex- girlfriends?

honestly, i don't know! i've wondered that too! it could be because some of em are jerks! but some of the guys dump girls to go out with their ex-girlfriends because they might've loved them and first loves never end! so that's the best i can tell ya! n if you want me to i can ask a guy! well hope i helped!
you know you love me,
kris

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hey I am 12 and I go to doerre middle.my boyfriend and Ihave been ging out for 1 week.I know that doesn't seem long but he has all ready told me that he loves me and never wants to let me go.But at my school he is frinds with a lot of girls witch doesn't bother me because I am friends with alot of guys. I have found out in the past week that alot of girls like him.Even some that were suppused to be my friend.What should I do?from ,
tj's girl

dear tj's girl,
i've been in this situation before. it sucks doesn't it i mean you're the one that goes out with him, but you're jealous of the time he spends with other girls. well i would talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. tell him that you don't like him spending so much time with other girls or that you don't like him being so flirty around them. that should straighten him up. lol tell me how it works out. hope i helped!
you know you love me,
kris

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hey..okay so i`ve been goin out with this guy for a while now and his ex girlfriend IMed me and told me that he was a player and that i shouldn`t trust him..so i broke up with him because I DONT GET PLAYED! but the next day, one of my friends who knew my boyfriend [or EX boyfriend] said that i was stupid for breaking up with him with no proof and that he wasnt a player. I am still in love with him. i`ve tried gettin over him but i can`t and i don`t have what it takes to call him and tell him i`m wrong. and besides, i don`t know which one is telling the truth...any suggestions??

.[[.cOnfuSeD giRl.]].

dear confused girl,
i definitely think that you should get back together with him! don't believe what you hear! and even if you have doubts you should always talk to him about it first! conversation is good. you should always talk things over before you make your decision. so write him a note and tell him how rong you were and how much you miss him and ask for another chance! tell me how it works out! hope i helped!
lots of love,
kris

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hey thank'z I asked him and found out that he won't break up with me because he thinks that's a dumb reason just like me I don't know why I was so worried but thank'z for your advice!

good! i'm glad everything worked out! and thanks for asking! if you ever need anything else jus ask me! i'm here for you! good luck with your boyfriend!
lots of love,
kris

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Last weekend me and my boyfriend was suppose to go to the movies but he ended up not being able to go so we didn't see each otha all weekend..now this weekend I am grounded, which means I can't do anything friday nor saturday. I'm afraid if I tell him that he might break up with me since it will be the second weekend not seeing each other. I mean last weekend he said that would be a dumb reason to break up with me but this weekend it's different cause its my fault I can't see him. Then the next week we will both be out of town for spring break. So do you think I should take a chance tell him then see if he breaks up with me and maybe get hurt or wait until the weekend and see if he brings it up then if so take a chance on him doing it then! See I don't want him to because I really do love him and I'm trying to make sure he won't break up with me because that dumb reason ya kno? so if you can help please tell me!

he won't break up with you! you can't always see each other every weekend. it's not your fault, that's just how it works. i've gone four days without seeing my boyfriend! it sucked, but i got through it. if he wants to break up with you just because you couldn't see each other, then he's a flippin idiot. it's his loss! hope i helped! tell me how it works out!
lots of love,
kris

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Hey!...ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about 9 months now n hes tryin 2 pressure me in to doing things im not ready for. He said that if i dont do these things he wants to break up. i relly dont want 2 do these things and i defintily dont want 2 lose him because im in love with him! wat should i do?


talk to your boyfriend! tell him how you feel about this. if he still doesn't understand how you feel then he was only in it for what he wants anyway! and he's not worth wasting your love over. you'll move on. hope i helped! tell me how it goes!
lots of love,
kris

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hey! one of my best friends lyks this guy. and well he lyks me, and i kinda lyk him. but i dont know whether i should just stay friends with him or wut! please help me!
--------so confused!-------

well i kno who this is! lol and i'm going to tell you what i told you before. if you like the guy and he likes you, go out with him! if he doesn't like your best friend why make her wait around for him? plus i already know she has someone in line that really likes her, but she said yes but not right now when he asked her out. so if you go out with him then that'll make her forget about that guy and go to the guy that she said yes to. everyone's happy! and i also know that you best friend is considered the "hottest girl in our eighth grade class" so she has all the guys. why not keep one for yourself? she has plenty to run too. i kno i didn't help much because i've already told you this a million times, but o well. if you ever need any other advice you know where to come!
lots of love,
kris

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hey thanks for your help I realized I like my boyfriend better and I should stay with him because the other guy would probably cheat or break up with me to fast and I think me and my boyfriend really have something going! Thanks for your advice it really helped!

no problemo! thanks for writing to me. i'm glad you came to me. if you ever need anything else, you know where to find me.
lots of love,
kris

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ok..i have a boyfriend right that i like very much but the other day i went out without him because he couldn't go and i hung out with this boy that i used to like but now i only think hes cute. well while i was with out we kinda flirted n now he likes me after i got a boyfriend and i used to like him a lot but i dont think i should dump my boyfriend for him because he's a flirt and messes round with every girl n usually neva has a girlfriend! so u think i should stick with my boyfriend or go out with the biggest flirt.

well you said that you only think that this boy is cute so why go out with him? if you really like your boyfriend stick with him! just because this guy is cute doesn't mean he's boyfriend material. trust me! so stick with your boyfriend. it seems like you like him way more anyways and just need a second opinion. hope i helped. tell me how it turns out.
yours truly,
kris

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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do?

just because you two aren't still together doesn't mean you can't be friends. try talking to her and telling her how you feel. tell her that you miss her. and want her back. i've been through that too with my boyfriend. we went out for three months. broke up over the summer because he thought i cheated on him (didn't). i realized i really missed him, told him that, and lucky for me he felt the same and we've been goin out for about a year now. so just go for it. hope i helped. write back and tell me how it works out.
yours truly,
kris

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ok i like my boyfriend a lot but he's shorter then me and im afraid if i go somewhere with him and my friends they will make fun of me.So should i stay with him or dump him for that stupid reason?

if you like your boyfriend a lot DON'T DUMP HIM! who cares what your friends think! it's your boyfriend not theirs! i've been in the same situation. my friends did make fun of me, but i didn't care. i went out with him because i liked him, not because of his height. so if they do make fun of his height stand up to them. tell them that you go out with him not them. so why should they care how tall or short he is. hope i helped!
yours truly,
kris

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