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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~

you dont have a problem every girl goes through a time in there life that they feel left out or vulnerable..but just because everyone else is doin it doesnt give you a reason to feel left out. you hafta be independent stick out from the cround.. that makes people realize wow she doesnt care what others think and more peopl will love you.. and this guy you have a cruch on, well yall are friends.. do yall ever hang out on the weekend do you have his number do yall ever talk outa school? well if it was yes to any you shouldnt be scared to let him know how you feel but if you dont know him and you have said hi to him once in the hall and you think hes a major hottie well step up make plans with him..dont come on to strong but also flirt with him do not be shy no guys like shy girls but let him make the first move thats when you know he likes you too then you can grab him and kiss him!!!
hope i helped out alittle
love
Justina

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k well me and my ex boyfriend went out for almost 9 months and we were always arguing but i mean it was over stupid stuff and we got over it really fast..well to him it seemed like we would have sex, everything would be okay and then we would fight again..so thats why he broke up with me..i still like him a lot but idk if hes going to wanna get back with me but he is letting me still share his locker with him and we still talk sometimes so do you think he will give me another chance or just stay friends?

ok...well did yall fight over little things what were these arguments about that you had? do u kno for a fact that he cared about you the whole time you werre together or did he just want sex? you have to ask yourself little questions like thart! but it seems to me he might be tryin to move on but keep talkin to you might just wana act as a caring friend for him right now and wait for him to tell you what he wants..or just come out and ask him if he thinks that yall could ever be back together..i think right now yall both still care for each other alot but you might have to give it some time... think of it as a break im sure he doesnt want you outa his lifew completely
i hope this helps
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Justina

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