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My boyfriend have been together for around 2 and a half years and we moved in together 8/9 months ago. Over the past few months things between us have started to go downhill pretty badly. We argue several times a week (mostly about things like house work and money) and our sex life is terrible! We treat each other horribly and don't show each other any respect.
I love our life together and when we are getting along things are great. Up until this point we were planning our long term future together but now I don't know if we have one at all. It all came to a head last night and we now haven't spoken for around 24 hours, something we have never done before even after arguing. We're at a total stalemate and I don't think either of us knows what to say anymore. Should I just give up on the relationship? (link)
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I would say try and live by yourself first. and not with each other. see if that helps..
Sometimes in a relationship you have to compromise to get anywhere..and its both of you..you can not just compromise and he not. Compromising is when you really don't like something but the other one does ..you would do that one thing to make them happy..but you shouldn't have to compromise all the time.
As far as you'r sex life..have you tried new things.. to spice things up?
sometimes when things get heated.. you need you'r time to your self to think ..
If u still love him..don't give up. and ask him the same. if he loves u.. hope this helped..
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