hey my name's kelli. i'm fifteen years old and a freshman at FHS. helping people is something i've always loved to do and been told i'm good at. when i'm out of highschool i'd love to go to school to become either a nurse or a licensed physcologist. along with giving advice i love singing, being outside, fashion, going out with friends, the beach, summer, etc. i've never been the most pretty girl or the most talented girl but i've earned myself a group of friends i woudln't trade for the world. i don't have a boyfriend at the moment but i've had my share of relationships and hookups over the past year. my families been through so much in the past year. they're supportive and amazing and i love them more then anything. i'm not a judgemental person and i always put myself in other people's shoes. any problem you throw my way i can probably compare to myself or at least to someone else that i know. i'm not violent or aggressive, most of the time i have a hard time standing up for myself. mostly i'm a peace maker and so far that's worked to my advantage. i've helped put together alot of my friends relationships and problems. this isn't my first advice column but i hope to keep this one going longer then the rest. ask me any question, i promise i'll give you an honest answer and i won't turn you away. i hope i can help you in some way :]
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ok well i have been with this guy and this is the same one i had problems with on my last question, but things had gotten better but now are getting worse and im tired of it i think i shouldnt have to be so angry all the time and wonder if im important to him i need a guy who will show me and treat me like i am so i am thinking of calling it off i just dont know exactly how to break up with him i mean we have been through alot and i care for him i dont want to hurt him but at the same time i need to just move on i still wanna be his friend though:( and advice would help at this point because im so lost and i know this break up will hurt me to (link)
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hey. i've been in your position before and i know how hard it is and how much it sucks. but you still have to tell him what you're feeling. if you stay together and continue to fight just because neither one of you wants to risk losing your friendship, then you ARE going to lose your friendship because you're gunna learn to resent each other that way. it's honestly so much easier to break it off now while things are still okay between the two of you. tell him you care for him so much but that the tension between the two of you is obvious and he must be feeling it to. tell him you think you're friendship would be better in the long run if you took a break for a while and just stayed friends. if it was truely meant to be, you guys will be together again in the future when you can get along better. if it's not then at least you can still be friends and know that you tried. good luck and if you need anything else just let me know :]
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