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15/f. i'm in 9th grade at middle school and i always have this problem where whenever i start becoming friends with a guy or talk to them a lot, i always start to get a crush on them and never just stay friends. why does this happen? it is like i can't have any guy friends...just crushes. also once i start talking to a guy a lot people automatically think i like them it is very annoying. and when i do like a guy most people can tell. and i don't think that i'm being that obvious...what can i do?

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omg i know exactly what you mean i have the same problem!!

i would just have to say at our age its fun to have crushes but its also fun to have guy friends but whenever i get guy friends i always start to like them 2 so i would say just look after one guy that you really like and if you start likeing some1 else but u like the 1 guy better just think about that 1 guy and talk to him more and get him to try and like you more then a friend


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Okay. Well there is this boy, and i like him and i'm not sure if he likes me. we sit infront of each other and we like to talk and stuff. And we were talkin one day and he made me laugh and the girl next to him said "Just go ahead and ask her out already!!" and he boy just sorta giggled,smiled, and turned real red. then like 5 minutes later she said it again and all he did was smile and turn real red...We like to push each others desks. and the boy sittin next to me (not the one i like) saw him push my desk. and he's like "ohh foostie!" and the boy i like blushed...and smiled at me... Does he like me!? Because one time the girl sittin next to the boy i like wrote him a note. talkin bout if he liked me. and i read a lil and she asked if he liked me and i didn't get to read the answer, then later down in the note i saw that she asked " what a friend?" so i had my doubts...so i dont know if he does... does he?

thats a hard question but i would just go for it and try to get closer to him.
you should become better friends with him and then finally go for it!!!

you could also go for the old tell your friend to ask him if he would ever consider you as a g/f...

GOOD LUCK

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