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okay .. im going out with this guy that i like ALOT! he's really sweet and all, but he NEVER calls me and we never get to hang out ..
what do you think i should do??
break up with him ..
or just deal with it??
-sooo confused (link)
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do something about it!he needs to be more a boyfriend and devote time to you,
maybe you should make plans instead of waiting for him to do it or call him once in a while...ask him why he wont call and stuff maybe theres a good reason...?
i hope i helped
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i have a boyfriend, but i also like this other guy but i also like my boyfriend! what should a i do? all my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend for that other guy, but my heart is like...idk...confused i dont know what to do! should i break up with my boyfriend? or stay with him and forget about the other guy?
-love sick (literally) (link)
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think about this
whos phone calls make you happier
who is more into you
who his more deticated
and most of all
who do you like most...
hope i helped
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Why do you always tell girls to ask out guys. That's not how it works unless the guys are extremely prude. You shouldnt tell girls to do it, the gusy should. (link)
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sometimes i dont even know if its a guy or a girl...
and yeah girls can ask guys out... if you always leave it to the guys they might never ask
you out if they are embarassed. okay?
this is an advice column. so dont put comments in it.get a life.
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there is this girl that and she said she doesnt like me but that was a long time ago i still like her
wut should i do!!!!!!!!!!?????????? (link)
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ask her who shes going out with and who she likes... and if she says noone give her time to start likeing her and then ask her out.
thanks
tOrI
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there is this girl and shes really preaty but i really dont know how to tell her that i like her and if i do tell her i wonder wut she and her friends will react
singed i want her (link)
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dont worry about her friends reactions.
the only thing that matters is her, right?
if if she and her friends react in a way that is rude or hurtful twords you..FORGET HER!she isnt worth it.
thanks
tOrI
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there is this girl i liked sinced the first day i saw her i dont know how to tell her and i dont know how to find out if she likes me
confused (link)
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get one of your friends that knows this girl to question her about it. then if the info. that your friend got seems to say that she likes you ask her out! if not then you should lay low for a while and see if she starts likeing you. if she dosent ...drop it.
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april...i was going out with this really sweet guy i mean i think we really liked each other but then this other guy liked me so i broke up thinking the other guy would be a better bf i was totally wrong he broke up wtih me and he said "it just didnt work out" like he would know
he never even talked to me. ok but after we the first person i was telling you about ,broke up my friend had this pool partty and he was just so amazing there but at the last day of school he said he liked another gurl. and now i like him again but now my hopes are way down of asking him beacaue my friend asked him who he liked yesterday and he still said that girl. and so im thinking i should give up on him or what do you think i should do?
signed --bummed
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Posted Saturday July 16 2005, 3:13 pm
april...i was going out with this really sweet guy i mean i think we really liked each other but then this other guy liked me so i broke up thinking the other guy would be a better bf i was totally wrong he broke up wtih me and he said "it just didnt work out" like he would know
he never even talked to me. ok but after we the first person i was telling you about ,broke up my friend had this pool partty and he was just so amazing there but at the last day of school he said he liked another gurl. and now i like him again but now my hopes are way down of asking him beacaue my friend asked him who he liked yesterday and he still said that girl. and so im thinking i should give up on him or what do you think i should do?
signed --bummed
This is Tori D uderstadts advice colm...not April's. sorry
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i like this one guy but he doesnt like me i dont think at least what do i do to get his attention?
signed desperate (link)
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do everything you can.
make plans
flirt
make him jelous
then ask him out!
play hard to get
THINGS N O T TO DO
look desprate
ask him out a jillion times
make it obvious
hope it works out!
tOrI
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do you no any girls who would have sex with an older kid goin into 8th??
~a big and gone confused lol~ (link)
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no you sound really desprate and no one likes a desprate guy unless they are desprate too. get a girlfriend your own age...girls also dont want to be with a guy that just wants to get in her pants.
tori
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tori-
theirs this guy that ive gone out with 2 times and everyone thinks were the perfect couple..but i think he doesnt like me..so i broke up with him. now i like him again and im pretty sure that he likes me but hes at camp right now and idk if he met someone new,, and i really really like him..what should i do??
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don't asume he met anyone else.that will make you really stressed and it wont be healthy...literally! wait until he gets back from campp and be like who do you like? and if he says noone that is good because you can ask him out again but if he says someone else then obviously he dosent like you..and if he dosent,you cant blame it all on him.you broke up with him and that is why you arent together right now.you have to face the truth. but, if he says he is single then you can try an dwin him back. but maybe not. he could think you are using him juat to have a boyfriend because you broke up with him twice already and he dosent want to get hurt again. but always remember there are plenty of fish in the sea!
hope it works out
tOrI
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i like this boy and he is single 2 so how could i be his friend more? (link)
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DON'T TRY TO BE A BETTER FRIEND! TRY TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!
Flirt alot
call him
make plans
hang out like a few times a week and then pick it up to more that once or twice...once you think he is falling for you ask him out before he loses hope in waiting for you!
it's as simple as that!
thanks and good luck!
tOrI
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my best guy friend is going out with one of my really good friends...problem is that i really love my guy friend. i've known him WAY longer than his girlfriend, & all his girlfriend..lets say..ANNA does is whenever im around her, she's like, i wish "matt" were here. she knows about me loving him, but i kinda feel like shes trying to rub it in that shes dating him and im not. do you think she is? PLEASE HELP!!
~CONFUSED~ (link)
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jelousy can really mess things up.try to move on. tell your friend that you have moved on so that she wont rub it in your face . but you may be over reacting and that could cauuse big problems. you might end up with both "M" and "A" being mad at you.so dont accuse anyone of aything and dont ry to get back at them for hurting you.it will mess things up.
thanks tell me how it works out!
tori
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uggh ok my boyfriend treats me like shit sometimes. a bunch of ppl tell me to break up with him but i just do not want to loose him. he can be an awesome person but at times hes just a totally different guy...rude selfish just not himself. im so sick of his attuide but i love him sooooo fing much!!! hes like my perfect guy execpt for the fact that we get in fights literally every day please help me i love him and i dont i want to loose him!! i love him not his bad attuitde to me. what should i do? how do i know if he loves me or not? (link)
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THERE IS NO WAY OF TELLING IF HE LOVES YOJ OR NOT.DO YOU LOVE HIM? IF YOU SAY YES THEN I THINK EVERYTHING WILL GO FINE. DO THESE FIGHTS BRING YOU CLOSER. IF YES AGAIN STAY WITH HIM.AND DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TELL YOU.YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES.JUST REMEMBER WHATS RIGHT.
tOrI
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hey tori, wanna go out sometime
i rate high for good answers ;} (link)
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ok people who ask me out withot giving me a name aren't very smart because how am i supposed to say yes if i dont know who you are?so until you give a name. NO.
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Tori... I am going out with this guy but next year we are going to different schools. He is really nice and I really like him but if I meet some1 next year and I am still going out with this guy and I may not be able to find him.I am not sure if I want to do it the last few days of school and he is really sweet. But another thing is we are going to an end of the year party and we will both be there. So I don't want to do it there because then it may make it uncomfortable. If you know what I mean!!!
~ sticky situation ~ (link)
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ok
i think you need to wasi until the first or second day of summer and then break up with him.
sounds like you are getting over him.
get his number and tell him that you want to be open for the summer and you are not going to see him at all next year. it just isn't gonna work out.
i think he will understand
tell me how it turns out
tOrI
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i like my best friend..(hes a guy) but hes going out with someone else
wat should i do?!?!?
me (link)
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same problem here.
let him no how you feel.wait for them to break up and then you can ask him out!
tell me how it goes!
tOrI
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omg i have lost so many friends bc of one guy!! everyone says i should break up with him but i love him wayy to much hes amazing and hes my perfet guy! i feel like no one likes me ne more like none of my friends!! i really miss my friends but i cnt loose this guy i have no idea what to do i just want every thing to go back to normal! why dont people like me?? what should i do to get my friends back w out ruinin my relationship pleasse help me! (link)
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tell your friends how much you like him and how much you still love tem and that you dont want to ruin either of the relationshoips. they will understand and if not, they aren't too great of friends if they dont respest you and your bf's relationship.
tell me how it turns out
tOrI
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Ok well i like this other guy "Bill" and he said he will brake up with his girl friend "Pippi" and im still going out with this guy "Bob" and i think its going to be so unexpected to him!so i dont know how to brake up with him HELP how should i brake up with him?:-/
_"Lilli"- (link)
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OK...
Tell him the truth. that is all that you can do. just don't be rude about it if you and "bob" stiill wanna be friends.
tOrI
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hey tori, are you going to 3 second? if so i will go and ill see you there
mystery person (link)
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sorry im not going ... who are you?
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Okay well.. heres the thing.. One of my bff's ( im gonna call her Amy) started liking this guy (i'll call him bob). Well you see at first i was like oh bob is gay. and then amy started going out with bob. they went out for about 2 weeks and broke up. Then they went out again and broke up again. Well bob broke up with amy both times, and she still likes him! The last time they went out was about two mounths ago. Well amy told me that bob said he likes me. well i'm starting to REALLY like bob, but if amy likes him..well i just don't know. what should i do? (link)
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hey
ok... do what is best for you! not "AMY" or else she will dop the same.if he doesent like her than they probably dont have a big chance of getting back togther. so go for it gurl!
tell me how it turns out w/ "BOB"
TORI
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