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oooook.so..i have this one friend..i've been friends with him for as long as i can remember..&& every single flipping year i always get the biggest crush on him..i've told him before but it was just like blah..but anyway.i'm really starting to like him again.we flirt like non stop whenever we're together.he's just the type of guy that i can just be chill around.but my problem is that he's kinda shy && i dno.he acts like he likes me.like today he wanted me to give him a low-five so i did && he kinda just held my hand there..so i dnooo.i'm wondering what i should do.i don't exactly know how to tell him.you know??but i dno.can someone please help me??

well it seems like he might have a crush too... but because he's shy.. he isnt going to admit it. so start to flirt a little more and see where it takes you, if your feelings keep getting stronger, tell him.. he probably agrees :)

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How do you know if you love someone? I think I love my bgf, but how can I be sure? We both like each other, but can't have a relationship now (complicated). I think I may love him tho actually I think I do because I mean I'm a very emotional person and I love all my friends and stuff and loving people isn't very hard for me (like friend wise) but I think I love him. I love him as a very good friend at least. Also if you have been best friends with a boy for a while and then you date is it kind of weird to start hugging and stuff. When you haven't for so long? And we've watched and supported each other in other relationships with each others best friends. So if/when we date is it weird to start hugging and stuff? Thanks so much! And i rate.

loving someone.. and being in love with someone are two completely different things.
you can love someone without being in love with them. if your questioning the idea of loving him, and you yourself arent sure, it probably isnt quite love.

as far as it being weird to hug, and get closer than you two are used to with each other... just go for it. it may be wierd the first few times, but you have to break the ice at some point or another :)

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i've been dating this kid brian for awhile and i really like him but the other day when i was hanging out w/ my friends i cheated on him with an older guy. my friends told the guy i had never made out before so he stuck his tongue in my mouth and wanting to get it over with, i made out with him. i don't know what to do.. should i tell brian or just not tell him and never let it happen again? help me!!! i'm so confused!! MUCH APPRECIATION!

well from what you said, it really doesn't seem like you had much of a say in getting with that kid. If you and brian have been going out for awhile he should trust you and respect that you came to him and told him the truth.

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do you believe in saying that boys have to call girls first? because if a girl alwyas calls the boy first, that might seem a bit too eager or desperate or something. what would you do if you like a guy and you want to talk to him? would you wait?

it depends how close the two of you are.. and if it would be weird if you where to call him. if it wouldnt go for it! think about something to talk about before you call. if he doesnt answer, just wait for him to call you back.. who knows.. maybe he wants to talk to you too :)

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