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Q: ok i am 13/f and i like my neighbor who is 16/m and well we are really good friends and everything i really really like him and i tried to not think about him cause if i tell him and he isn't into it then we probably won't be very good friends he is very supporting he went to all my baseball games and basketball and we hang out like evry day i have tried flirting with him but i get mixed messages i dono wat to do should i tell him how i feel or should i just keep my feelings to myself please help me i am so confused i WILL rate really high
i think this is a very hard place you're in i honestly think that you shouldn't tell him yet but think also that he might be doing all these things because he probably still wants to get to know you. I mean if you feel like just telling him just go on because is something you feel. If things don't work out i don't want you to feel sad just think that you're still young and boys come and go. Best of luck.

Q: Im a 15/f, 16 in april.
okay for some reason i think its really odd to date a guy whos like 17. but then id love to date a guys whos turning 15. i know usually everyone wants to date guys who are older and taller then them but i mean i think its kinda gross well not gorss but just weird if i would date a guy whos like 2 years older then me or 2 years younger. is there something wrong with my brain or is that just my personality towards guys i like?
Look. everyone has there own way of thinking and falling in love. There is nothing wrong with you. You have to do what feels right to you and nothing else matters. At the same time you should also see that dating someone older or younger is not weird. There are people in this world who have this type of taste. Just like you want people to respect you for who you are you should respect other.. Dont close your self, mind and heart. You may find a wonderful guy who is so much older than you. In this situation, what would you do let go a loving man just coz he's older? I just want you to know that there is nothing wrong with your taste in guys. Who knows someday your taste might change, as you are still growing up!

Q: well i like this boy and he liked me back well and then i was really mean to him because i was in a bad mood and i never meant all that stuff i said well i never said i hate you ore anything i just never answered him :-( well so now he just pretends i dont exsist and everytime i look at him he looks away and i really like him! so does he still like me? please i really want to know! THANKS :-)

well i totally understand the fact that you was angry and not in a good mood we all have our days but sometimes when we are mad we take it out on someone else and we don't realize that the person you are hurting is the person you most love. I think you should try to talk to him and explain what happen yet if that doesn;t work try writing him a letter i can't say that it will definetly work if it doesn't and he won't listen think that you're still young and you have so much more and that probably if he doesn't get over it noticing that it was a mistake probably he wasn't meant to be for you Best of luck.

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hey my name is aris u i am 14 u can ask me anything i am bisexual so if u need any help or have any questions feel free to ask. i give all my freinds advice and i rememba i am hear for ya.

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