Well muh name is Alecia i'm 16 and am a huge carmelo anthony fan. if n e 1 needz advice juss let me kno..i'm pretty good wit dealin wit every one elses problems juss not muh own! lol....:)
Gender: Female
Location: originally from syracuse, new york but now i live in jacksonvile, florida
Occupation: a senior in high school!!! class of '05 baby!
Age: 16
AIM: sumelonuggets15
Yahoo: soccer_chick_cutie
MSN: alianzagrl8
Member Since: June 1, 2004
Answers: 15
Last Update: July 18, 2004
Visitors: 1307
Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Love Life
Friendship
View All
|
| |
|
ok i have been talking to this girl alot and we've hung out a few times but nothings happened. And after a lil bit she said she loved me and a was a lil bit sketched out but i thought w/e she must really lik me. and we didnt talk for 4 days because my phones were dead so i couldnt call her or go online to talk to her and over that time she was mad and kissed another guy, what do you think i should do about all of this (link)
| |
well obviously she was playin err lyin when she said she loved you. juss cuz u guyz dind't talk si no excise fer kiddin another guy afta she said i love you. plus who sayz i love you afta juss a lil bit? not rly n e 1 not dat soon n e wayz, unless she rly loved you but u can tell by her kissin sum otha dude dat it wasn't tru! so if i was in ur position i would drop her. itz ruff but u gotta do wut u gotta do.
|
ok..i have been dating this guy for a lil over a month now and we are great together..but there is just one lil problem..he is a bad kisser..im not trying to be like omg im the best or anything..but he does need some work..all we ever do is just tongue wrestle and it gets very boring after awhile..one of my friends said that when u have sex it will get better because of the whole motion thing happening..but im not so sure..i have not had the experience to know what its like yet..
what do u think i should do..should i tell him or just try new things without him knowing that i dont like the other way...? (link)
| |
well i think every 1 has been in dis situation befa. god knoz i have. i juss tried 2 stuff and eventually he did da same hting and it made it interesting. try new thingz wit him and if he dones't get caught on jsus straight up tell him it ian't a rly good kisser...and den suggest tryin wuteva u lyke.
|
i just have a question about what u think about birth control and if u knew what the side affects are and what will happen to me in the long run.
i am planning on having sex with my boyfriend soon so i need to kno the information now so that it will have enough time to generate..does it actually make ur boobs bigger and help with acne?
if i go on b/c will i be able to get off of it if i needed to?
please let me know (link)
| |
well honestly i'm not sure bout most of it. i have no idea wut da side effects r and i kno fer sure it dones't make ur boobs bigger. i am on it inf ac ti jsus started bout a week ago...no side effects yet and the doctors said there rely wasn't n e. itz very good u took da necessary precautionz in order 2 have sex. and yes wheneva u don't wanna take it n e mroe u don't hafta.
|
yeah i wrote about havin the 7 1/2 inch dick and i asked if you would want to ride it? like if you were friends with this guy and you were hangin out one day and something happened and you saw his dick or something, would you be so turned on by it that you would want to fuck it, or suck it or something
(link)
| |
not unles i was a hoe...
|
yeah well my penis is a good 7 1/2 inches and i was wondering if that is to big or to small. I am almost 17 and i just started dating this girl, and i dont know what she'll say about my dick, i dont want it to be anything bad.
do you think 7 1/2 inches is good, would you wanna be ridin that shit? (link)
| |
well i cna't sepeak fer all otha girlz but datz a purfect sixe fer me. i woulnd't wry bout wut she is gunna say bout it. if she has a problem wit it den she ain't da gurl fer u.
|
|
Hey my name is mike and i have wild sex all the time but i have a problem, i ran out of condoms and i have no way of getting any more for a while, and my girlfriend wants to have sex like really bad and so do i and she says to just do it who cares about the damn condom and we are madly in love with eachother, but idk what i should do i mean i really want to but i dont want to get her pregnent or get some kind of disease, what should i do??? what would you do??? (link)
| |
well i ain't gunna lie dis is a tuffie. how old r u? i rly wouldn't take da risk of havin sex w/o a condo, even if i was madly in love wit da person. unless i was ready fer da consequences. and i'm sure u could juss go 2 da store and buy condoms. or she can go 2 like a planned parenthood and get birth control. i would wait. especially da disease bith control is not gunna help dat. i fu can wiat. if not den get sum condoms, or juss discuss wit her da consequences of wut will or could happen if u have sex w/o a condom. be careful! and make da right decison. dis is what i would do. i am madly in love wit sum 1 right now and if we didn't have n e comdoms and no birth control i wouldn't get 2 have da sex dat i'm sure u bof want an di would 2. cuz i kno i'm not ready 2 have a baby or get an STD no matta how much i love dis guy! ....well good luck! and b careful!
|
|
ok well i am friends with this kid and i have grown to like him more than that...everyone says that we would make a cute couple and all that stuff and that we should date because we flirt alot but i dont know what he thinks about it im pretty sure that he only likes me as a friend but everyone thinks he likes me more i dont know how to say something to him about it cause i dont want to get my feelings hurt by him cause i have in the past and put a lil break in the friendship so i really dont know what to think or what to do about it and i could really use some advice...we flirt constantly and seriously no joke when i say that everyone that is around me and him when we are flirting or w/e say that we should date cause we already act like it or say we would make a cute couple this one girl is convinced we will get married when we get older and a bunch of people have asked me if we are already dating so i really have no idea what to do (link)
| |
i've def. been in dis situation and i kno itz tuff. i mean u thinkhe may like you and u don't wanna rly approach him wit it cuz wut if he denies it. ultimately dis rly does suck. and der is no easy explantion of wut 2 do. in dis case dis is wut i would. again NOT EASY! but juss go right up 2 him and b like is der eva a chance of us bein togetha and try da datin thing..if not den u got da "juss friendz" hting which is tuff cuz u like him so much den der is da "friendz wit benefits" thing and dat getz complicating but explore those options wit him. you can @ least try it. but if he sayz yes den...yayyy! lol. u juss gotta suck it up and ask..fone..or in person don't do it online cuz u neva kno if it is sum 1 else or rly him so b careful! and good luck! lemme kno how things turn out!
|
|
I asked you question in the past and you did help me a little bit but, in all honesty i am still not sure. At times i feel both girls are lying to me, i discussed this with the one and she told me that she did lie about some stuff but then she did tell me the truth. And both girls are tellin me about each other and i dont know if i should believe them or not, because i think they might be saying this so i go for them and not the other.And the one girl is attractive and i have things in common with her but she tells me that she isnt willing to do that much sexually, and that is not a problem right now but it def. could be in the future. The other girl is very beautiful and she does want to do sexual things and i think that is great. But everytime we hang out she doesnt want to. The one day she was on her perod and that is totally understandable, but the other times she would talk about it so much and i wanted to do stuff but when we were together she would say no, and when i would close and just hold her in my arms she would just walk away and she would get my hopes up. I wish i knew what she was thinking so i knew what to do, i would know she wanted, but it just isnt that easy. If you were the girl what would you do? (link)
|
well not all muh advice is goin 2 b purfect but i do dat best i can do. i would go fer da gurl dat is pretty but not very sexual. and i highly doubt 1 of da gurlz is liein bout da otha 1. cuz i kno fer a fact 1 gurl doesn't care n e more....u need 2 do wut makes u happy. if letz call da none sexual 1, danielle and da sexual 1 lily. i would chose danielle beacuse she is priolly prettier and don't wry bout da sex thing. it kinda seems u like danielle cuz u have shit in common wit her and like lily because she likez sex. go wit danielle. and den if dat doesn't werk you den you need 2 try lily. but again itz all up 2 u. maybe u all should get together and see wut happenz. and think ova da whole stayin friendz wit bof. think it ova. i kno it isn't easy and all i can truly do is give u muh opinion and advice u choose whetha 2 take it err not. let me kno how it werks out.
|
Well I am pretty inexpierenced in the whole relatioship area, and ive never really had a girlfriend. So the real problem is that there are these 2 girls that like me, and i am not sure i should go with. Both girls are very attractive and i do like them both. What makes this si hard is that the 2 girls hate each other because of something that happened in the past. Who should i go with when everyone tells me do what makes me happy but both of them make me happy. i just like being in their company.
What should I do? What would you do? (link)
| |
to answer what u should do is hard. but i can answer wut i would do. i would go wit da girl dat u get butterflies wit when u talk 2 or kiss. the girl u kno u deep inside feel is right fer you..if neither of them do that fer you den i would juss explain 2 each of them dat it won't werk out and u don't wanna waste their time...but if 1 gurl does do that fer you den go fer her and tell the otha 1 dat u simply wanna b friendz. another approach could b juss bein friendz wit bof of em' and den u got da wholef irendz wit benefitz thing but i don't suggest dat cuz dat getz tricky...especially sinc ei don't kno these 2 girlz. which eva u pic if u do pic 1 juss make sure u r still friendz and have a good realtionship wit da otha gurl...iight? good luck! an di hope i helped
|
Ok.. Im like totally in love with this guy.. lets call him Nick.. i think nick likes me bak but doesnt wanna be more than friends.. for right now... he tells me and my friends that it will happen eventually.. hes juss not ready now. whenever were around each other he flirts with me nonstop and says stuff ur boyfriend wud say.. he calls me 3 times a day.. comes over to my house a lot.. i ask my friends if i shud move on but they tell me they kno hes gonna ask me out eventually so dont give up.. wut do u think i shud do??
Totally Confused (link)
| |
okay totally confused...i think u should juss hang in der it should happen if he sayz it will.....i do understand eventually is da hard part. waiting is da hardest hting especially if u rly like dis guy! i would say dat if it doens't happen by da end of da summa juss try 2 get ova it! keep him in ur mind tho u may miss a good chance wit a great guy! b careful wit him he may jsus b playin....good luck!
|
|