Hello, my name is April. Desribe myself huh, well I am a wife and mother of four , I don't work outside the home. I have always been the person that everyone comes to when they have a problem or need a answer to a question . I have never went to school to give advise but I am now thinking about it. I thought that I would try this first to see how it go's before I decide to take this on. If you would like to contact me go to http://www.vonity.com/Askapril
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Hi,
i am really jealous of my bf's ex. I know little to nothing about her, except they were together a year and he lost his virignity to her. i know they're still friends and talk online still. she lives interstate so he doesn't see her, but still. This jealousy has been going on a few months and has not passed. My bf can't seem to offer much assistance. =/ I keep wanting to find out more about her but the more I find out the more jealous I become. How do I get over this?? Its starting to ruin things between us. (link)
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First of all you need to be up front and honest with him and yourself about this jealousy. Ask if it would be ok for you to talk to her also so that maybe you can get to know her yourself. Keep an open mind and try to control your feelings but if this is still bothering you after that then let him know comunication is always very important to keep a realationship going.
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I am college student and I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now. However, it seems like longer, he and I lived in the same dorm this past year and we spent a lot of our time together so it feels as though we have been together for almost double that. We figured we would be spending the summer apart since his parents are from half way across the country, but, when he returned home his parents informed him that he would not be returning to school we both went to this year.
We decided to go the route of the long distance. We decided that neither one of us wanted to break up. Yet, I am the type of person who fears commitment and anything seroius and I in a normal situation I have my doubts. There are some days though, where I am okay with the relationship, and where I think that him and I will be fine, he is one of the most loyal people I know. And then there are days like today and yesterday, where he forgets to call before he goes to sleep (like he does everynight) or when we only talk for 15 minutes with in the span of two days, where I doubt this. I doubt how he feels for me and I doubt that this could work. It seems that now more than ever a little insignificant thing such as a missed phone call set me in to a world of doubt. So I am just wondering if anyone has any advice, whether it be that you think I shouln't be in this long distance situation or whether you have advice to get through this. Thank you so much. (link)
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Long distance relationships are hard on alot of people. If you are having troubles excepting the distance you should first talk to him and let him know how you are feeling and see what he says. Trust, honesty and comunication are going to be your keys to getting through this . Aways remember that if it is ment to be it will work out but you still have to put the work into it. No problem happy to help if you need more advise check me out on http://www.vonity.com/Askapril
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