my names lizzy. I play sports all year; basketball, volleyball, and softball. im a freshman in highschool. im usually the go-to girl for all my friends problems so if you need the advice, im here.
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This guy and i have been on and off for a little over a year, and i dont know what to do anymore.
its one of those situations where it doesnt matter how much he ignores me, i still like him. and he knows it.
he has a lot of girls who are friends and constantly takes them before me. i love him a lot though and i don't know what to do to make him realize that i can't take this anymore. he either needs to get his act together and treat me better or get out...
everytime we break up and get back together he always promises things will be different and he'll try harder and for the first month or two, they are. but then things fall apart. the cycle repeats itself. i like him so much that i let it.
please help, i can't cry over this anymore. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel-it's happened to me countless times.
it seems as if the only reason he wants to be with you, is because he likes being in the relationship, and being in control of the relationship since he can promise you something, then take it away just as fast. it's obvious you truely care about him because you're the one who wants to keep trying. but when he's broken so many promises of changing his ways, and doesn't. you know he doesn't care. if he's choosing his friends who are girls over you and you're obviously uncomfortable about it, try talking to him about it and how you feel about it. if that doesn't work, as hard as it may be, you have to move on to someone else. especially if he ignores you.
it took me a LONG time to see that i deserved better than him and you deserve better than him too. the right guy should NEVER be the reason you cry. he shouldn't be making you upset like this.
good luck with everything!
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