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I really liked this guy and i told him i liked him and he liked me for almost all the beginning of the school year to like christmas.. i started liking him around new years and i told him and he told me he liked me too but asked another grl out the the next day.. they broke up and hes single again and i kinda like him again.. but i dont wanna get hurt... what should i do (link)
Well him fooling you/and lieing to you probelly does hurt. If youl ike him, then tell him, but you also have to let him know what he did to you was wrong, and you don't want it to happen again. Getting hurt is always partof a relationship. everyone has their up's and down's. Talk to him about it. Xoox


theres this girl that i used to know and we didnt tlak for like 2 yrs. suddenly weve started talking again through a mutual friend. Shes really hott and i like her a lot. I dont know what to do. I wanna go out with her soo bad. should i make plans with her or call her or what?? HELLPP...btw i am a male 15 (link)
hEy! wow, i don't really know how you can start liking someone in such a short time, but I guess you found a way, and are very sure about your decision. 2 years is a long time though. It's good that you think she's really hot. What makes you want go out with her so bad? Is there something in particular that you really like about her? Other than she's hot, because if that's the only reason, you shouldn't try to get with her. But yes, deffiently make plans to hang out, expecially since summer is comming up really soon. But summer realationships might not last, and they could. Or even call her, both work. Go with what your heart tells you to. Just make sure she isn't in a relationship! hope i helped, tell me what happens! xoxo


i need ur help. my boyfriend constantly pressures me about oral sex. weve been together for almost 5 months now, but im not ready to do that. i dont think its important in a relationship but he always talks about how all his friends get it and how he wants it too. do you have any ideas? (link)
HeYheY!! Well it seems that your boyfriend wants to fit in with his "friends." He shouldn't care what his friends get, he should care about YOU and how YOU feel. If he pressures you into it, tell him NO! It isn't important in a relationship, I don't know why people do it to be honest, well for pleasure I know that much. Sit down and talk to him, tell him what you just told me, that your not ready, if he doesn't listen he's no good. NO GIRL SHOULD EVER BE PRESSURED INTO SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T WANT. Everyone says, don't do something you'll regret later, because you don't know if you'll regret it...Xooxo Tell me What happens! xoox!!


Im in love with a beautiful blonde cheerleader with big blue eyes. She doesnt think i love her as much as she loves me.. but in truth, i love her more than i could ever express in words. We sometimes fight but, you know.. it all works out in the longrun.. im really happy i found her and i couldnt ask for ANYTHING better. I need your advice.. how do i make her realize that i love her as much as she loves me? *wink* *wink* :D (link)
Tell her you love her, but she already found it, and knows how you truly feel. She might talk to you, because she has tears of happyness falling down her cheek, and loves you more than you know.


I like this guy alot, and i think he likes me because he flirts with me so much? how should i find out that he does? (i am really shy)
Thanks
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Woo! Hey there! Maybe the some person from below!Who knows, well i think you should write him a note er something. Or ask one of his good friends, ask him online though, that way neither of you will be put in the spot! Tell me what happens! xoxo!! thanx!!


I happen to like this guy, and i think that he likes me, how can i be sure?(Just a note, i'm kinda shy)
Female, 14 (link)
HeyHEYheY!! Well I use to be shy, so I guess I know where your comming from. The only way to know is to acutally ask him. It might be a little scary at first, and your heart might begin to beat a lot and faster, but once you get the answer, it should slow down. Or if he doesn't like you *i hope he does!* You should ask him over the internet, that way, the both of you won't be at a complete silence. :-) Tell me what happens! thanxk!!


well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?
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Hey hey hey!! I would just wait until she just likes you, because she could just be trying to get closer to you as a friend, but then again, she could just like you! :-)


Well i really like my x bf but he has a new gf and i wanna no if there is anyway i can get him bak
btw im 15 (link)
Hey Hey!! Well theres two ways to look at this. One, you can get him back, by being the ex-girlfriend that talks about his new girlfriend. But if you do, do that people might start to dislike you, and you don't want that. Or you can just be happy, that he's happy-and find another guy. :-)


how do i break up w/ my gf and still be close friends w/ her lik wut should i say (14 male) (link)
To be honest, I highly doupt you will still be close friends. I don't really even know, what will happen between you two, you have to give me some more information. Just tell her, why you want to break up the TRUTH. Even if it hurts her or you. But don't be a bitch about it, because girls arn't stupid, we know you stupid games,lies, and a bunch of the bull shit sayings. I know i speak for all the girls out there!!


i feel like i am obsessed with the idea of anal sex, i always tink of girls, but is that gay? (link)
Um, if your a girl or a boy, that would help so i could figure it out. But whatever makes you happy works :-))


i havent told my gf yet but i jack off at least once a day is that normal? (link)
No clue. Lol. Just tell her, sure she might be a little weirded out, but then she'll probelly laugh it out.


should i be jacking off once a day or is that too much???? (link)
I'm not a boy, but whatever pleases you, then by all means, keep doing it...:-)


Hey Kim,

I've been dating this guy for almost five months and he doesn't like to make out but you know i kinda do....how do i get him to come out of his shell? (link)
Hey ya!! Well I would talk to him about it, give him some hints, if he doesn't get them, then really just come out and say it. Maybe he's just shy. Theres a lot of reasons, but you shoudl talk to him.


this boy i know who is my sisters age is totally gorgeous.. he know's who i am and we have talked before.. but he probably thinks i am anoying because i am totally obsessed with him and everyone knows!.. ive told some of his friends who have told him.. and its just a big mess.. im 14 and he is 18.. but thats no problem!? he used to work at a gym and so everytime he saw me i looked really bad and i was in work out clothes..but then..he went off to college but i am gonna see him again in about a week.. i called him before a couple weeks ago and he said he wanted to party with me.. wicch is totally awesome except.. he didnt kno it was me.. and he is SOOO hot.. like everyone thinks he is i havent met 1 person who know's him who doesnt think he is hot.. and when he goes to pparty's he always gets on the hottest girls.. and all i want is for him to be like..wow out of those workout clothes she looks pretty good.. (he is a really nice guy) so i dont think this would be that hard?.. but still i just want to have a picture of him and me before he goes off to college again.. do you have suggestions of how i could do that?..-signed..PLEASE HELP! ( (link)
Hey Lillia!! Well age isn't nothing but a number, and stuff, but it is kinda weird. Yea, ask him if you can have a picture of him. Or take one at the party, with you and him together. :-) xoxox!


hey kim im a really good friend of u and i have a important ? im 14 and i already use a dildo is that normal??? (link)
I guess it's normal, you can't get pregnate by it, so by all means, do what pleasures and makes you happy. :-)


im a boy who is 14 but i have a reall bad problem i give blowjobs for money im mean im not gay cuz i thin boys are ugly and girls are hot but i love the salty tast of spluge!!!
i need some advice and fast because im not sure if im gay bie or straight and need to makea decision
FAST!!! (link)
Well, I can't decide if your gay or straight that's up to you. But if you like giving blowjobs, you could be bi, but you don't think guys are hott, you just like the taste of cum. I would say to get over that, try drinking salt water? I dunno, salt water is salty. Good luck! Tell me what you decide. Also, would you ever consider going out with a guy?


My frend is 13 and she had sex... i am so worried about her getting pregneant she is too young... im scared of wat everyones gonna think of her... i dont want her to become the slut of the school... shes only going into 8th grade... it makes me cry that she would do that i dont know wat to do she is such a good frend and i dont wanna see her hurt (link)
Well, tell her what you just told me, and that you don't wnat her getting hurt. Well pregnacy these days is common with teenagers. It's sad but true. And if she is having sex, tell her I hope she's using protection, both her and her boyfriend. =)


ok kim lets say my friend jimmy and lol michelle its me if ur reading this but anyways we use to be soooo close but it seems like he doesnt even want to be with me anymore and its just crazy cause i love him so much but anyways wut should i do? (link)
Hey!! Well maybe you should ask him face to face, if he does want to be with you. And you should tell him how you really really feel about him. Maybe he think's you don't want to be with him, that's why he doens't want to be with you. Just talk to him about it, and tell me how it went!! xoxo


my best friend went out with this guy that i liked and i found out that this guy doesnt even really like her and he likes me...he broke up with my best friend and then asked me out...i dont noe wut to do cuz my friend said shes not mad but i noe she is wut should i do? (link)
Tell her, what is happening, and see what she feels, but friends come before boyfriends. I hope you told this guy know. If you know your friends mad, don't go out with him, and get her even more mad. :-)


ok well theres this guy and we had a relationship 4 a lil while but it ended so we talked on occasion. now he only wants 2 hang out when my best friend is here. i asked if he likes her and he sayd no but it doesnt make sense then. then i thought it was 2 hook his firned up with her but his friend has a girlfriend, my friend says its 2 try 2 get me jealous but i dont no if thats it, wha do u think? (link)
Hey Cutie!! I think he's trying to get you jelouse. But then again, he broke things off with you, guys are confusing these days! But hey single life is fun. Well for me, and the new school i'm in. HEY RM BABIES I LOVE YA'LL!! XOXO




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